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    Default I dislike being an ENFP.

    Because of the stereotype.

    We're thought to be fun-loving, bubbly, disorganized, flaky, irrational, emotional, head-in-the-clouds, lighthearted, illogical. Dislikes/unable to confront, cannot take criticism, trouble saying no.

    The list goes on.

    This is not true for me at all.

    I am not a maelstrom of emotions. I am highly logical. I rarely pay attention to my emotions. Emotional people irritate me.

    I am not particularily disorganized.

    I am not flaky. I am NOT irrational.

    I have no problem with confrontation, I don't mind arguing.

    I can take criticism. Infact, I don't even care.

    I can say no. I can say no and make sure you know I mean it.

    I am not a drama queen. I HATE drama. I keep my issues to myself.

    But still, I am an ENFP.

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    Are you sure you are an ENFP??
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    but....maybe you're entp.
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    Seconded.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    ^^. The way you describe yourself sounds a lot more like INTP to me.

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    I'm not big on drama or big emotions either. The only critism I don't like is familial critism. I like confrontation too. And I just remembered, I suck at getting the girl. Relevance? None, other than I hear ENFPs are suppose to be suave.

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    Could just be low on Fi...high on Ne-Te

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    Quote Originally Posted by SecondBest View Post
    ^^. The way you describe yourself sounds a lot more like INTP to me.
    I think it sounds more like xNTP. I would say ENTP because said subject strikes my intuition as an Extrovert.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    Ne?

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    well i don't have trouble saying no...in fact i like saying it much...i dislike doing what's expected...so no! no! no! haha and...i only like drama if it's funny...and it's a joke...not like for real drama everyone pay attention to me about this or that stupid thing that could be so easily resolved on your own quietly sthu no one wants to hear it! and...confrontation isn't something i seek out or crave but will do so when necessary without much concern....but the other stuff...disorganized...emotional...illogical...yep all that stuff to some degree yep.

    you sound a bit more entpish but i know another enfp who does also.
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