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    Default You know you're an ENFJ when....

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    You know your an ENFJ when you.....

    1. see someone feeling down and feel that it is your duty to help them out somehow.

    2. have a neat/organized desk and have tons of colorful photos & art posted in your cubical or office.

    3. feel really sad when you see unfortunate people sleeping on the streets.

    4. get butt hurt & feel misunderstood when people dont get you.

    5. alot of people tell you way to much information because they feel safe and comfortable around you.

    6. create elaborate excel spread sheets to plan for the future.

    7. create pros and cons lists to help you make a better decision.

    8. try to diffuse drama in group settings by taking charge, making a huge effort to try and harmonize the group.

    9. put others needs ahead of your own.

    10. sob like a baby when watching sad movies.

    11. feel really guilty when you feel the need to be mean to someone, so you always apologize or try to explain why and hope they understand where you were coming from.

    12. are good at leading a group and motivating others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sparrow View Post
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    You know your an ENFJ when you.....

    1. see someone feeling down and feel that it is your duty to help them out somehow.
    Oh you bet. With my ENFP sister in tow, it becomes a tag team event.

    2. have a neat/organized desk and have tons of colorful photos & art posted in your cubical or office.
    It's strange - I'm comfortable with a certain level of haphazard messiness, but when my sister organizes thing, I really love the order and will do whatever necessary to maintain it. I like it when things are functional.

    As to sticking frilly, shiny, sparkly doodads to everything, I'm your girl! I've been referred to as a hermit crab crawling along the ocean floor sticking found objects to my shell. lol


    3. feel really sad when you see unfortunate people sleeping on the streets.
    It's true.

    4. get butt hurt & misunderstood when people dont get you.
    This used to hurt me a LOT. As I've gotten older, I've cared less and less. However, when the other person's misunderstanding of me interferes with vital communication, that makes me both mad and really hurt. I don't like dealing with cynics. Skeptics, sure. No cynics.

    5. alot of people tell you way to much information because they feel safe and comfortable around you.
    Oh yes. This happened to me (and my twin) so often, the INTJ we ran with felt the need to "deflect" such people.

    6. create elaborate excel spread sheets to plan for the future.
    In Technicolor!

    7. create pros and cons lists to help you make a better decision.
    I can mull something to death, plus I love making lists.

    8. try to diffuse drama in group settings by taking charge, making a huge effort to try and harmonize the group.
    I have been known to do that in hairy situations.

    9. put others needs ahead of your own.
    The common affliction of the NF world.

    10. sob like a baby when watching sad movies.
    Yes, but only behind my hands.

    11. feel really guilty when you feel the need to be mean to someone, so you always apologize or try to explain why and hope they understand where you were coming from.
    There was a scene in "You've Got Mail" where Meg Ryan is saying "I wish I could say what I want to say in the moment and not come up with much later after I've already left" and Tom Hanks says basically that being able to say exactly what you want in the moment always comes at a cost because you'll walk away knowing you've snapped a person down royally, but you regret having been so mean or lacerating. I've felt this way frequently.

    12. are good at leading a group and motivating others.
    I'm pretty good at galvanizing a group I'm already an intricate part of. More often than not, at the garage, I was the social hub.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    You guys are like my long lost Siamese twins.

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    We should have some sort of really gross looking band of flesh attaching us together so we can flash it at people.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    ...and give the haters big fat group hugs. I hope that our infectious love will spread.

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    Hahaha I can see it now...hugfest 2010 .
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    I plan on rubbing a lot of cooties on people.
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    Hold on - all of this sounds so INFJ... except that I'd need breaks from the groups...

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    I need a lot of alone time myself.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    Same here...for reals. lol

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