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    Lightbulb Hate an INFJ? Tell us why!

    I've seen other threads like this one going around for other types, so I decided to create one for the INFJ.

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    ...how direct do ya want it?
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    Very direct I can handle it. *Gets tissue box*

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    I doubt she's talking about you DJAchtundvierzig as far as INFJs she hates.

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    Haha I know she wasn't directing it at me. But I'm still an INFJ.

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    Ok..well the things that bug me the most are:

    * passive-aggressive, especially in a snipy way. I actually use it myself when I get defensive with someone I feel uncomfortable with, but I very much try to avoid it as I find it to be the equivalent to cutting someone with a scalpel, just without the anaesthetics.

    * The high-and-mighty thing. I get that that's Ni for ya, and I love Ni normally, but there's something about the NiFe combo that just irks me. It's that whole 'This is the way it is/should be and you're an idiot for not seeing it or unworthy for not living up to that standard'. I know INTJs are prone to the same thing especially when it comes to work standards, but somehow I can smile better at that (I'm allergic to guilttripping Fe, so that might be it)

    * The martyr-thing. The 'Woe, me, I'm so tough for bearing this burden while nobody cares.' Not everyone is gifted in seeing that you need help. You have a mouth, you're not a child, ASK! Do NOT guilttrip.

    * Judgemental. Someone who doesn't live up to your standards and has a different pov somehow has to prove their worth to you 10 times before you'll even consider them potentially interesting, or so it feels, at times.


    Note: I'm aware that due to my own perspective and my limited sample pool of INFJs, this is bound to be somewhat subjective and biased. And it clearly mostly applies to the more..immature ones still. Hope this was what you were looking for
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    oh come on...no one hates infjs they just don't...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Satine View Post
    Ok..well the things that bug me the most are:

    * The high-and-mighty thing. I get that that's Ni for ya, and I love Ni normally, but there's something about the NiFe combo that just irks me. It's that whole 'This is the way it is/should be and you're an idiot for not seeing it or unworthy for not living up to that standard'. I know INTJs are prone to the same thing especially when it comes to work standards, but somehow I can smile better at that (I'm allergic to guilttripping Fe, so that might be it)

    * The martyr-thing. The 'Woe, me, I'm so tough for bearing this burden while nobody cares.' Not everyone is gifted in seeing that you need help. You have a mouth, you're not a child, ASK! Do NOT guilttrip.

    * Judgemental. Someone who doesn't live up to your standards and has a different pov somehow has to prove their worth to you 10 times before you'll even consider them potentially interesting, or so it feels, at times.


    Note: I'm aware that due to my own perspective and my limited sample pool of INFJs, this is bound to be somewhat subjective and biased. And it clearly mostly applies to the more..immature ones still. Hope this was what you were looking for
    I have a very strong Ni and Fe, and this definatly applys to me. I have a feeling this thread is going to make me hate myself... You should all pitty me for bearing this burden. But you wont will you? You will never live up to my out of this world expectations, I know that. Untill you do, your worth nothing to me, get out of my sight.

    Just kidding. Yes this is what I was looking for. And all of that does apply to me, but I don't let it blow out of poportion.
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    LOL. Like I know any INFJs well enough to hate them.

    Actually, I don't believe I hate anyone.

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    i only know two also haha
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