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    Default What do INFJs like and dislike?

    Here is a thread to give examples of what an INFJ likes and dislikes. Feel free to contribute.

    Here, I'll start.

    Likes:

    They like to be told they are right.
    They like to experiance new things.

    Dislikes:
    They dislike being told to hurry up.
    They dislike hearing the same thing over and over.

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    Let's hope they like boring threads... /mumble

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    They like competition. Outwardly or subtle.
    They like to contribute their flair on things.
    They dislike sudden changes in plans.
    They dislike arguments.
    What is normal to one, is incomprehensible to another.

    ALL anger in this world stems from a lack of control.


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    Quote Originally Posted by xNTP View Post
    Let's hope they like boring threads... /mumble
    I guess INTPs do too, and you for posting...
    What is normal to one, is incomprehensible to another.

    ALL anger in this world stems from a lack of control.


    All of reality bows to the illusion of life and death.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xNTP View Post
    Let's hope they like boring threads... /mumble
    Yup, they do, thats why one created one.

    Dislike:
    Having their creations called boring.
    Having their self-esteem lowerd
    Being to showy of their feelings than they would like to be
    Feeling guilty of sharing their feelings and thinking that they were rude or non-modest
    Thinking that they should just delete their thread because someone has a problem with it
    Realizing that everything has it's ups and downs
    Realizing that they're making a big deal out of nothing and getting caught up in details
    Realizing that they should just shut up.

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    Likes:
    Compliments, both giving and receiving, more on the giving though
    Nurturing others and seeing the good in them
    Counseling others and helping them to find some measure of peace
    Ideas, both formulating new ones and polishing existing ones
    Words and finding new ways of expressing thoughts and ideas
    Solitude
    Politeness, humility, tolerance, magnanimity
    Stress
    Big picture

    Dislikes:
    Conflict
    Ending relationships
    Guilt borne of ending relationships
    Guilt borne of feeling responsible for the emotional well-being of the world
    Guilt borne of breathing oxygen that could benefit someone else
    Did I mention guilt? of course, I guess we must like it to some degree...
    Rudeness, aggression, arrogance
    Stress
    Tedious details (not always)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Horrible Aesthete View Post
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    Guilt borne of ending relationships
    Guilt borne of feeling responsible for the emotional well-being of the world
    Guilt borne of breathing oxygen that could benefit someone else
    Did I mention guilt? of course, I guess we must like it to some degree...
    This is my best friend to a T! We were discussing it today, actually!
    What is normal to one, is incomprehensible to another.

    ALL anger in this world stems from a lack of control.


    All of reality bows to the illusion of life and death.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJAchtundvierzig View Post
    Yup, they do, thats why one created one.

    Dislike:
    Having their creations called boring.
    Having their self-esteem lowerd
    Being to showy of their feelings than they would like to be
    Feeling guilty of sharing their feelings and thinking that they were rude or non-modest
    Thinking that they should just delete their thread because someone has a problem with it
    Realizing that everything has it's ups and downs
    Realizing that they're making a big deal out of nothing and getting caught up in details
    Realizing that they should just shut up.


    Quote Originally Posted by DJAchtundvierzig View Post
    Here is a thread to give examples of what an INFJ likes and dislikes. Feel free to contribute.

    Here, I'll start.

    Likes:

    They like to be told they are right.
    They like to experiance new things.

    Dislikes:
    They dislike being told to hurry up.
    They dislike hearing the same thing over and over.
    Yup.

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    INFJs like when people actually care about THEIR problems for once!
    INFJs like when others respect that they need to plan in advance.

    INFJs dislike nagging, especially when they know that what they are being nagged about is something they are going to do... soon.
    INFJs dislike bad manners. (I for one can't stand bad manners at all.)
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    INFJs like bed.
    INFJs like books.
    INFJs like alone-time, cave-time, withdrawal, whatever you want to call it.
    INFJs like writing.
    INFJs like being listened to.
    INFJs like nature / outdoors
    INFJs like being authentic. And when others like them for their authenticity. And best of all, when others are authentic with them.
    INFJs like close friends, close family.
    INFJs like deep conversation.
    INFJs like singular hobbies (music, arts, reading, writing, running, archery, swimming).


    INFJs do not like caustic speech.
    INFJs do not like arguments for their own sake.
    INFJs do not like hostile environments, perhaps more than other types.
    INFJs do not like people who state their opinions like they are god's truth.
    INFJs do not like incredibly loud, self-centered people.
    INFJs do not do well with extremely demanding people; the INFJ will give, give, give, then doorslam (most likely). I think the doorslamming just gets more diplomatic and less absolute with age and maturity.
    INFJs dislike smalltalk.
    INFJs dislike huge, forced social gatherings and rituals.

    Please forgive me if some of this "INFJs like..." has bled over into "Mochajava likes..."

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