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    This Straight Male INFJ: (apparently, we're rare)

    • LIKES tiny genuine signs of interest/affection from others on a semi-regular basis
    • LIKES creating new things, be they fictions, artworks, programs, worlds... maybe even paradigms of thought that help others.
    • DISLIKES not being shut out of another person's feelings and thoughts, especially where it pertains to them.
    • DISLIKES witnessing acts of selfishness, large or small, or other antisocial habits among those around them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Moonstone3 View Post
    They like competition. Outwardly or subtle.
    as an INFJ I am not able to relate to this. I hate competition and would much rather seen cooperation instead.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ItsAGuy View Post
    as an INFJ I am not able to relate to this. I hate competition and would much rather seen cooperation instead.
    I would have to agree with you on that one. Sometimes I make competition without realizing it, and I even get into it, but I definatly dislike it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ItsAGuy View Post
    as an INFJ I am not able to relate to this. I hate competition and would much rather seen cooperation instead.
    Agree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mochajava View Post
    INFJs like bed.
    INFJs like books.
    INFJs like alone-time, cave-time, withdrawal, whatever you want to call it.
    INFJs like writing.
    INFJs like being listened to.
    INFJs like nature / outdoors
    INFJs like being authentic. And when others like them for their authenticity. And best of all, when others are authentic with them.
    INFJs like close friends, close family.
    INFJs like deep conversation.
    INFJs like singular hobbies (music, arts, reading, writing, running, archery, swimming).


    INFJs do not like caustic speech.
    INFJs do not like arguments for their own sake.
    INFJs do not like hostile environments, perhaps more than other types.
    INFJs do not like people who state their opinions like they are god's truth.
    INFJs do not like incredibly loud, self-centered people.
    INFJs do not do well with extremely demanding people; the INFJ will give, give, give, then doorslam (most likely). I think the doorslamming just gets more diplomatic and less absolute with age and maturity.
    INFJs dislike smalltalk.
    INFJs dislike huge, forced social gatherings and rituals.

    Please forgive me if some of this "INFJs like..." has bled over into "Mochajava likes..."
    You may have "bled over" some of yourself, but as an INFJ, this description is completely accurate, to the last detail. I thought "Wow, this is all totally me."

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    Quote Originally Posted by ItsAGuy View Post
    This Straight Male INFJ: (apparently, we're rare)

    • LIKES tiny genuine signs of interest/affection from others on a semi-regular basis
    • LIKES creating new things, be they fictions, artworks, programs, worlds... maybe even paradigms of thought that help others.
    • DISLIKES not being shut out of another person's feelings and thoughts, especially where it pertains to them.
    • DISLIKES witnessing acts of selfishness, large or small, or other antisocial habits among those around them.
    All I can say is that it's wonderful that the world has male INFJ's. I can't stand all those guys who think you have to kill, argue, and win everything to be a guy.

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    Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Valerie View Post
    You may have "bled over" some of yourself, but as an INFJ, this description is completely accurate, to the last detail. I thought "Wow, this is all totally me."
    Crazy. I wonder how much of this is type vs. personality... the eternal question, I suppose. I'll come up with more just to see how far the similarity goes, because this is intriguing!

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    INFJs like giving advice
    INFJs like getting advice
    INFJs like to know what's really going on with someone
    INFJs like causes, activism, and working for a deeper reason than money
    INFJs like puzzles
    INFJs like being mentors
    INFJs are selective about their friends and people they spend time with. I use the words "chosen family" to describe that inner circle for me.

    INFJs don't do well with people who are shallow or whose present themselves as shallow
    INFJs don't do well with arrogant people, particularly when they don't have anything to back it up
    INFJs don't do well in extremely loud environments, especially if it's prolonged (e.g., a noisy officemate)
    INFJs don't do well with a very very high amount of detail...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Valerie View Post
    All I can say is that it's wonderful that the world has male INFJ's. I can't stand all those guys who think you have to kill, argue, and win everything to be a guy.
    There's a lot of social conditioning around the behaviors you've described. Those guys might be INFJs, you never know...!

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