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    Default Question for INFPs - Ideal Mate?

    Just wondering what MBTI your ideal mate would be?

    Mine would be INFP. I have certain TJ tendencies that might balance out the relationship if the other INFP was a bit overemotional or disorganized, but yeah...

    If anyone of you follow Pomplamoosemusic on youtube, I think Jack and Nataly are definitely both INFPs and they seem to get along great. I mean, to me, that's just the ideal relationship. None of the overly gushy romantic stuff, just a simple look into each other's eyes like they're sharing a secret no one else knows.

    And plus they make wonderful music together. Can't get much better than that.

    YouTube - PomplamooseMusic's Channel

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    I'm also within the minority of INFP's who would like to date another INFP. I don't care if there's too much emotion or no balance. I don't agree with that whole "You need to date someone who is opposite of you because you balance eachother out" thing. That's a load of bull to me. I mean, fine, call me boring and unadventurous for wanting to date someone like myself, I don't care.

    Anyway, I also wouldn't mind being in a relationship with:
    -ENFP
    -ISFP
    -INTP
    -INFJ
    -ISTP

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    ENFP's are charmers.

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    INFP too actually. Recently I had an involvement with another INFP but something unexpected happened and so it got extinguished... Once feelings toward another are made clear that both INFPs like each other enough to pursue something more, I don't see too many problems arising besides responsibility-related ones...in time other things might arise but that is what's normal. For what my experience was, it was very rewarding, it is hard not to miss it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by musicnerd93 View Post
    I'm also within the minority of INFP's who would like to date another INFP.
    I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this and I actually had no idea that this is considered a minority opinion.

    But it makes sense though doesn't it? What better way to have a true union of souls than to bring together two open-minded intuitive compassionate people together? INFPs or ENFPs are lucky in that sense, don't you think?

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    I've read that INFP, INFJ, and INTP are the types most likely to marry someone of the same type. INFP-INFP isn't as rare as you might think, and seems to work well for many of those that desire that type of connection.

    I don't think I could date another Fi dom. I'd also have a very hard time with an ISTP in a long term relationship. Outside of that, I'm far more picky about the person than I am about the type.

    Quote Originally Posted by SNUGGLETRON View Post
    ...in time other things might arise but that is what's normal.
    *snicker*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Udog View Post
    Outside of that, I'm far more picky about the person than I am about the type.



    *snicker*
    Fair enough. I very much agree. This type-based question was more out of curiosity, but yeah I'm also very very picky about the actual person. A person's value system, what decisions they have made in the past, how they've reflected and learned from those decisions, and how they make decisions now are of much greater importance.

    For me, MBTI type is to a human being as breed is to a dog.

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    The ideal does not exist... Just nice developmental possibilities.
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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    I accept no responsibility, what so ever, for the fact that I exist; I do, however, accept full responsibility for what I do while I exist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    The ideal does not exist... Just nice developmental possibilities.
    Fair enough. This is more of a poll than anything else to see if other INFPs feel the same way I do.

    Personally, I've had it with developmental possibilities and just self-improvement in general. Just want a person I can enjoy my life with. :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by SecondBest View Post
    Fair enough. This is more of a poll than anything else to see if other INFPs feel the same way I do.

    Personally, I've had it with developmental possibilities and just self-improvement in general. Just want a person I can enjoy my life with. :P
    I'm not talking about you're development. I have yet to find a type I can "just enjoy my life with".
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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