Thank you Domino for your frank view. Whether she thinks I'm emotionally unstable or not I don't know, but she does know I'm an emotional person and she seems to be able to read me quite well as I can her most, if not all, of the time.
I do constantly wish I could blurt, "Just give it to me!", especially to that ENFJ as she can be quite guarded about certain issues (certain personal details). I can begin my operation into dissecting for details as I do with most others but upon picking up cues that she's awkward with my further probing, I would almost instantly let it go as there is this sense that she would think I've gone overboard.
Even with the knowledge that most ENFJs are happy for people to want to get to know them, I face this dilemma of whether or not to ask more whenever I get a bit of an uneasy aura from her.
ENFJs are definitely lovely beings but their guardedness is disconcerting, at least of that friend of mine.
Nevertheless, with regards to my original predicament, she somehow stepped up on her act when we met two days ago and went as far as willing out details of that particular topic around which there used to be a don't-want-to-go-there zone without my even trying to pick at.
I was glad and proud of her, though sometimes I think no matter how much an ENFJ can confide in you, there is always an air of mystery to their existence. Well, I don't know, just saying.