How easy is it for you to "ignore" who you really are? And conversely, how difficult is it for you to ignore who everyone else is? I expect the answers to be roughly the inverse of an INFP's, but set me straight if they're not.
Are there certain people (or Types) that you can't "calm" or otherwise influence because you can't stand to sponge up the anxious or negative emotions they waft?
What's with the ENFJ stare? This one falls under "ask an ENFJ," but as long as I'm here....
And of course I read it as vulva.