I see strong signs of Fe and Te.
I am not sure if he is an introvert or extrovert.
We communicate seemingly in a very similar way, which is quite rare.
He is a very shrewd businessman but he also radiates warmth, kindness and understanding.
I question whether his warmth is real or just a persona that he believes is most successful to his business. He goes out of his way for his customers, but he still keeps most of himself detached.
I see no Fi, like mine, but Fe is possible because he is so good with people.
He is matter of fact, practical and is interested in underlying human motivations.
He is curious but whether in a personal or pure business sense, I do not know.
He could get anyone to do anything basically. I don't know how he does it.
He is very charismatic and can be very friendly and goofy, even flirtatious.
But when he is angry, oh my god - extremely, extremely intimating. If he ever yells at me, I'd pee my pants.
He seems very intuitive and sensitive to things unsaid. I would just be lost in my thoughts and he can sense if my mood shifts. He can tell before I say something or if I want to say something. I think he takes offense from whatever he perceives by the little things I do or do not do.
Sometimes he takes things personally but not from a Fi or Fe standpoint.
He is someone who cares if he's missing a dollar.
He acts like a friend to everyone but at some point, I noticed that he is first and foremost a business man and my boss so I have been reserved myself as I do not want to cross a line.
Lately, I feel tense around him. I don't know if it's my energy or his energy. It makes me rather uncomfortable. The thing is, I need to stay at this job but I can't tell if he wants me to stay after the summer's over or not as I was planning to go back to school. I make little mistakes because of my lack of memory/attention to little details but overall, I am very friendly, honest and conscientious. I just don't know what he's thinking. It's be awkward if I want to stay at the job but he doesn't want me to (yes, I am hyper sensitive). I don't feel that he needs to know my personal reasons for wanting to take some time off school, but at the same time, I don't know how to assert myself into this job position as I do cringe at every mistake that I make.
I don't know where I stand with him. I know he is stressed because business is not picking up like he expected. I can't trust his general personality because he is extremely charismatic and always show a warm side to him.
My guess is ENTJ or ENFJ but he could also be an introvert, ISTJ or INTJ. But he does seem very aware of emotions and can read me very well and is really suave with strangers. Even the most sour-faced customers open up and giggles. One woman always give me the evil eye but with him, she's so chatty and smiley.
I suppose I just need to figure out what I need and go for it. But I am in this pensive, anxious state for different reasons and I do not feel confident in asserting myself. What do you guys think?