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    Having a natural flirtatious way of talking to people but then when someone actually flirts with you, you freeze up and have no idea what to do.

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    Anyone have a hard time staying organized and focused at work? I love my job, it's fast-paced, I see kids of all ages for short periods of time throughout my day, and I'm physically up and moving while still using my brain. You'd think I'd be able to deal with the mountains of paperwork, but it just shuts me down! I lose things, miss check boxes, and become so stressed out and overwhelmed by all of the legal documents and multiple deadlines. And when I get home, forget it! I already hated house work and cleaning, so after a day or week trying to keep up at work, cleaning my house is at the very bottom of my list. That, of course, leaves me less prepared for the work week and scrambling again. Can anyone help an ENFP sister out?!

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    -The world not living up to your expectations

    -People taking your friendliness and genuine interest as having some sort of ulterior motive.

    -Feeling effeminate/childlike compared to other males your age

    -Feeling such an intense interest in another person for no logical reason

    -Feeling like other people your age are so rigid and mundane when it comes to socializing. For example, lots of urban teens would rather smoke weed/hookah or drink in a tiny ugly apartment than doing something that's actually memorable and novel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    -The world not living up to your expectations

    -People taking your friendliness as having some sort of ulterior motive.

    -Feeling effeminate/childlike compared to other males your age

    -Feeling like other people your age are so rigid and mundane when it comes to socializing. For example, lots of urban teens would rather smoke weed/hookah or drink in a tiny ugly apartment than doing something that's actually memorable and novel.
    Yes! I completely agree!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    -The world not living up to your expectations

    -People taking your friendliness and genuine interest as having some sort of ulterior motive.

    -Feeling effeminate/childlike compared to other males your age

    -Feeling such an intense interest in another person for no logical reason

    -Feeling like other people your age are so rigid and mundane when it comes to socializing. For example, lots of urban teens would rather smoke weed/hookah or drink in a tiny ugly apartment than doing something that's actually memorable and novel.
    All the male ENFP problems right here. >.<

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    Quote Originally Posted by Malkavia View Post
    Having a natural flirtatious way of talking to people but then when someone actually flirts with you, you freeze up and have no idea what to do.

    Whomp.
    Hahahaha trueeeee

    Quote Originally Posted by nicolita View Post
    And when I get home, forget it! I already hated house work and cleaning, so after a day or week trying to keep up at work, cleaning my house is at the very bottom of my list. That, of course, leaves me less prepared for the work week and scrambling again. Can anyone help an ENFP sister out?!
    I've no good ideas about the paperwork, but as for the housework, bag an SJ who will help... mine is happy to do the laundry... I've been bragging about it to everyone...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stansmith View Post
    -People taking your friendliness and genuine interest as having some sort of ulterior motive.
    I have had a huge problem with this and an ENTJ manager at work. He thinks that when I try to explain something, it is an "excuse"; he thinks that when I accidentally lose track of time and stay late, it is trying to work the system; he thinks that when I tell him the computer is not working that I am trying to get out of my duties. It's not just with me, of course, he does this with everyone, but he's so delusional to think that everything everyone does is specifically intended to get them ahead in the game. I don't think like that and I don't even know how to make him understand that I don't.

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    Something I've noticed concerning the ENFP type is just how impressionable they are!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    Something I've noticed concerning the ENFP type is just how impressionable they are!


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    Dear @Magic Qwan ,

    I would love to write to you during your stay at 'Camp NT 5w6' but since you created a message in the NT private forum...alas I cannot.

    Still, the camp youth leaders said they would get these to you...




    there's some long underwear in case it gets cold there at night...
    a care package with some Mad Libs and cookies
    and the kind of bug spray that works best on your sensitive skin.

    Have a great time! And give me a call when you are ready to come home.
    Love, Starry
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    Sort of gullible at first moment- as we tend to believe a person and give them the benefit of the doubt unless proven otherwise.

    Put off things until the last minute and then FINALLY get inspired to DO IT because there is fire under our ass.

    Judge people based on how they treat others. Completely unimpressed with worldy accomplishments if treating people like crap was part of the process.
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    What about making investments in people based on "what can be/possible" rather than "what is"? Maybe an -NFP thing?

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