Blimey - reading all of that's mangled my brain. There is clearly so much about the MBTI that I need to learn about to be able to understand it effectively. *intrigued*
I tend to get involved in heavy manual labour when very upset or angry, but if I just need to chill and find my centre I read or meditate. It's rarely a long time, but I do need it, otherwise I find myself being forced and fake and that bothers me.
PS - Never thought of myself as a flirt (just friendly) until an ex called me on it. Am now slightly more aware that others may misinterpret my intentions.