EW: Mary would express frustration about Bob's behaviour. Margaret would ask what he did. She would then ask a few more questions to clarify, till she feels she understands the situation and Mary is no longer going on and on about it. Usually Mary will invite her opinion. Margaret might say something like, "Well...it might be such and such...or such and such...or such and such. Do any of those sound plausible?" Mary would respond and more questions might ensue or THAT'S when Margaret might share her INTJ experiences. Or the experiences might be shared to look for similarities and differences in situation and motivation.