I forget where one looks this up, but somebody looked at marriage pairings and there was something about "female ENFJ's are [highly likely, overrepresented, whatever they said] to marry male ENFJ's." Similarly for female INFJ's with male INFJ's, and male INFP's with female INFP's.
Interesting! I think I'd slit my wrists if I had to marry a fellow ENFP.
Wouldn't date one if you paid me. the male ENTJ=yes please. they turn ENFJish in relationships sometimes.
ENFJ men come across passive-aggressive and feminine to me and not self-contained. I need a rock who is self-confident internally first to balance my external nature. I also find that ENFJ men are alphas and I am an alpha and it just doesn't reach a sorting out of hierarchies or whatever you call it. For some reason the girl ENFJs I know are way more confident and ballsy than the males.