Okay so here goes
ENFJ-positive: organized, leader, on time, good grades, nice, warm, enthusiastic, good at handling money
negative:fake,manipulative, backstabbing, hypocritical, controlling, passive aggressive, emotionally manipulative, emotionally manipulative, closed minded, judgmental, scared of change, likes to tell people how to run their lives(bossy), superficial
ENFP: positive: accepting, open minded, warm, fun, enthusiastic, creative, friendly, leader, changelings
negative: flakes, emotionally manipulative, passive aggressive, late, childish, annoying, disorganized, passive aggressive at times, unknowingly starts problems, irresponsible, messy, dirty, forgetful
But I still think ENFJ's are extremely fake.