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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    And...where did this thread go? LOL.
    Sorry about that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    I respect your point of view. However, have you not expressed in the past issues of gender confusion?
    Other people have been confused about my gender.

    You can only say I'm gender confused if such things include having no desire to fit into expected gender roles. But I think that would be an inappropriate definition.

    I am a straight male, and I've not felt that I was anything else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    And...where did this thread go? LOL.
    [YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEon8uTWW30"]This is How We Do[/YOUTUBE]


    I think it's usually pretty clear when a straight dude is just talking to you or interested in you because they find you attractive and want to be more than friends. I have found that XNFPs, particularly INFPs are really bad at recognizing/gauging this.
    Why them in particular?
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    I believe that sexual tension is natural and needed for a relationship to form some depth. I relate this sexual tension in the same way as feeding egos. Complimenting each other on who you are causes a unique depth that common interests begins to create, but often dies out because nothing but that exists within the relationship. Some form of attraction must be there in order for you to start a relationship, or so I would imagine. As something piqued your interest in the first place. This holds most true when you intiate the friendship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Poriferan View Post
    You can only say I'm gender confused if such things include having no desire to fit into expected gender roles. But I think that would be an inappropriate definition.
    That sounds like gender confusion to me. In practice, as a straight man how do you not fit into accepted gender roles?
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    I take you at your word.

    However...

    In these cases, are you available, are they available, and, how attractive are you?

    These factors dictate the strength of the attraction.
    There has been cases where both of us (me and certain male friends) have been available and there has been no issue.

    And I'm not hideous if that's what you're suggesting!

    Do you feel passing attraction to your female friends Synarch? If so what is it that incites it? How do you react when you feel it - do you panic and try to clear it from your mind or do you just secretly enjoy the moment?
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    they've gone through and through me, like wine through water, and altered the colour of my mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Southern Kross View Post
    Do you feel passing attraction to your female friends Synarch? If so what is it that incites it? How do you react when you feel it - do you panic and try to clear it from your mind or do you just secretly enjoy the moment?
    On the occasions when it has happened, I don't enjoy it. It makes me feel endangered and vulnerable.
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    ^ This. Though it has only recently became this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    That sounds like gender confusion to me. In practice, as a straight man how do you not fit into accepted gender roles?
    Passive. Gentle. Not very commanding (in spite of what some people on this forum would probably assume). Self-deprecating/sef-doubting. Unambitious. Don't want a job. Rather take care of things than be a provider. Very monogomous. Need lots of asexual affection. Can be very sensitive (to certain people). Vain. Pre-occupied with receiving love. Chatty.

    Those are some psychological traits of mine that are generally considered feminine, not masculine. There are more material/superficial traits as well, but I find those pretty silly.

    Like, I'm interested in clothing. Very touchy about my hair, I need to keep it long. I like to skip. I own stuffed animals. People tell me the way I stand when I'm idle looks like a woman, etc...

    But I don't think any of that makes me gender confused. I have learned that they contradict what is supposedly masculine, a heterosexual man, accoridng to this society. But they don't make me less of a man to me. I do not desire to change my genitals, or refer to myself as a female. I want to have sex with women often. I am not turned-on at all by men. That's good enough for me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ReflecttcelfeR View Post
    ^ This. Though it has only recently became this.
    Why do you feel that way?
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