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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Men sometimes enter relationships where the implicit motivation is sexual. Then it often turns out the woman wants more. Rather unsurprising.

    Women sometimes enter "platonic" relationships with men where the implicit motivation is friendship. Then it often turns out the man wants more. Yet, this is surprising.
    so...in the first scenario...he just wants sex? does this happen so often that he thinks that's the likely outcome?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    I think men want to be around women. So they try to be friends. But, the thing that is motivating them to want to be around women is not friendship. It is sexual energy.
    Yep.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    so...in the first scenario...he just wants sex? does this happen so often that he thinks that's the likely outcome?
    I have seen it happen. A friend of mine has been dating someone he was just supposed to be having sex with. It's the way the game is played. And was ever thus.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    I have fallen victim to the second scenario a few times.

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    Here's the irony. The best way to get a woman to want to have sex with you is to be friends with her without ever suggesting that you ever want anything more. Gradually, she will wonder why you never flirted or made a move and it will drive her crazy.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReflecttcelfeR View Post
    I have fallen victim to the second scenario a few times.
    The only way to a woman's heart is with cruelty that carries the promise of affection.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    ^ fell for that once. It was good though, cruelty aside.

    Just kidding. My heart wasn't really involved in that game.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rebe View Post
    ^ fell for that once. It was good though, cruelty aside.
    Why did it work?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    The only way to a woman's heart is with cruelty that carries the promise of affection.
    A lesson I have learnt by obtaining and creating a strong T. Sad though.

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    It worked because I was in a very, very, very bad place. I was (am) young and curious and not afraid of exploring and I was intrigued by his personality, not what he was or was not offering. I am less intrigued by that sort of game after that. I like to do things at least once. I don't like using other people's data, I need to create my own. When people tell me, don't do that, I always wonder why and they never have good enough answers. I need better sources.

    It doesn't work on a healthy, self-respecting woman, not for long.

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