Although I have some ENFJ friends who get it (I thought it was rather NF...maybe not), and we bonded over it.
I love this quote from High Fidelity (the movie): "What really matters is what you like, not what you are like. Books, records, films - these things matter."
I've actually had to tone down my feeling there - it too easily becomes snobbery. It became a means of isolation instead of connection... But the general feeling always remains intact.