I know. This is why I roll my eyes almost every time when one of the NFP inhere says that I should not hide myself that much and that they would prefer "real" me always. What can I say ? I am naturally pretty direct.
Actually the reason why I have said that is because I have warned her in advance that I probably will not really care about the present. Plus I wanted to discurage her from doing that ever again. (that is why I was so brutal)
So we made a deal: if there is a special day coming up and I want something I will tell her and she will buy me that as present. (if she wants to do that)