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    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenix_400 View Post
    I don't think anybody was making a blanket statement about mental illness itself as a problem. Its just something that has to be factored in. When you're sharing your life with someone, you each bring your own problems into the relationship. After that, a vast majority of the individuals problems become the problem of BOTH parties in a close relationship. The person's problem affects the relationship and thereby the other person as well. That's something a lot of people forget. That's why communication skills are so important for the success of a relationship. You see a lot relationships end because one person wasn't even made aware of the problem in a relationship until it was too late(or the person with the problem shut out the partner and tried to handle it all on their own), instead of talking and resolving things as a couple. If the way a person is handling their mental illness severely undermines their ability to trust and/or communicate with their partner(2 major foundations for a solid relationship), then the relationship is going to be very tumultuous and likely short-lived.
    Ok so
    -communicates
    -not abusive

    still don't see a need to discriminate based on mental health.
    Quote Originally Posted by Yloh View Post
    Good idea. You are helping me clean up the mess I make for myself ... thank you.

    I had no idea that my mental health position would cause so much problems. I actually thought it would be more positive as I would be willing to start a relationship with someone with a mental illness.
    >.< That's kind of the problem right there. That people assume mental health problems are a no-go. You're right that it is a positive thing, but...

    sigh... this is not the right thread for that crusade.
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    Heh, everyone seems to have some kind of crusade, and yet I couldn't think of one if I tried. Everything I think about just hits the reality wall and I wonder how reasonable it really is. What's the point anymore?
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Heh, everyone seems to have some kind of crusade, and yet I couldn't think of one if I tried. Everything I think about just hits the reality wall and I wonder how reasonable it really is. What's the point anymore?
    D: No! Maybe you're depressed
    The beauty of a living thing is not the atoms that go into it, but the way those atoms are put together. ~ rCoxI ~ INfj ~ 5w6 so/sp

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    I'd like to go on record as saying that I have fantasized about tying you up/gagging you.

    You're welcome.
    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    You know I'm a dude, right?

    Is that a deal-breaker?
    LOL. I think I now know, conclusively, how to spot female INTPs in the wild.

    (I ain't saying you're horndogs, what I mean is that I've finally 'pinned down' the vibe, so to speak)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    You know I'm a dude, right?

    Is that a deal-breaker?
    Does it matter?

    A butt is a butt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dali View Post
    LOL. I think I now know, conclusively, how to spot female INTPs in the wild.

    (I ain't saying you're horndogs, what I mean is that I've finally 'pinned down' the vibe, so to speak)
    Damn. What gave me away? The third leg?
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Does it matter?

    A butt is a butt.
    Yeah, but NF men have standards.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ivy View Post
    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Must Have
    Drive
    Curiosity
    Understanding
    A sense of adventure

    Deal Breakers
    No drive
    No curiosity
    No understanding
    No sense of adventure

    vv

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    MUST HAVE:

    - Humor
    - Ability to strike up an interesting conversation
    - Admire total honesty (even if it can be difficult)
    - Understand why I function the way I do

    DEALBREAKERS:

    - Non-authenticity (makes me wonder who I have in front of me)
    - Whining
    - Not letting herself be seen (even though you actually really try your best to see why a person works the way she doe)

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Does it matter?

    A butt is a butt.
    And besides I was gonna just ram a baseball bat up there.
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