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    Arrow The NF Females' List of Deal Breakers

    This list is for all those people who think that NF women can't cut the wheat from the chaff because we're too nice. Well think again. NF women can and do have deal breakers.*

    Please break your list into these three sections:
    1. Must Haves
    2. Rather Nots
    3. Deal Breakers

    *This thread is inspired by the NT Females' Deal Breakers thread on the NT Rationale forum.

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    OK, I'll go first:

    1. Must Haves
    • Ambition - Not a lot of money. Just a desire to do something and do it well.
    • Kind heart.
    • Polite comportment.
    • Well-Educated
    • Love of Reading
    • Passion for the Arts

    2. Rather Nots
    • Any interest in any sports...
    • Smoking
    • Less than 5" taller than me. (I'm 5'6" so you do the math.)
    • Overly Intrusive Previous Entanglements (e.g., 4 kids from 3 former wives.)
    • An Unwillingness to Curtail Excessive Hirsute Tendencies

    3. Deal Breakers
    • Love of College Football (Yeah, I'm serious.)
    • Ignorance
    • Selfishness
    • Close Minded
    • Lay About Attitude
    • No Sense of Adventure

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    I don't think Florida will do as well without Tim Tebow.

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    1. Must Haves
    • Self-awareness
    • Sense of humor
    • Lack of political correctness
    • Some empathy
    • Decent intelligence
    • Variety in interests
    • Mutual love or something damn close to it
      (likely more, but i'll get around to it if need be)

    2. Rather Nots
    • Religious
    • Excessive introversion
    • Sports-obsessed
    • Alcoholics / druggies / smokers
    • Obnoxious porn habits or collection
    • Vegetarian
    • HEFTY HEFTY HEFTY

    3. Deal Breakers
    • Wanting to spawn... i mean.. children.
    • Has bottom-feeders.. i mean.. children.
    • Too sensitive (aka has more of a vagina than me)
    • Excessively clingy
    • "I'm right, you're wrong" syndrome
    • Lack of compromise
    • Manipulative
    • Vegan


    Btw- i am well aware that i'm an a-hole :blushing:
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    1. Must Haves
      1. Chivalry
      2. Patience
      3. Intelligence
      4. Inner Strength
    2. Rather Nots
      1. Games
      2. Talks too much
      3. Sports fanatic
      4. Of the 'F' persuasion
      5. Of the 'J' persuasion
    3. Deal Breakers
      1. Frigid
      2. Pushy
      3. Boring
      4. Effeminate
      5. Controlling
      6. Afraid of Bugs
      7. Drives a Chevy Camaro

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    whats so wrong with liking sports?

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    I think it is because NFs (INFs in particular) seem to have a natural disdain for competition, and most sports are essentially competition for its own sake. Sports are also usually associated with brutish behavior.

    (of course, im not NF, just an observation.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowriot View Post
    whats so wrong with liking sports?
    Obnoxious fans, basically. Obnoxious jocks, as well. I don't know many people who are into sports that are redeemable. If i meet some, perhaps my personal opinion will change.
    Quote Originally Posted by themightybob View Post
    I think it is because NFs (INFs in particular) seem to have a natural disdain for competition, and most sports are essentially competition for its own sake. Sports are also usually associated with brutish behavior.

    (of course, im not NF, just an observation.)
    Bring on the brutish behavior.. and hey.. maybe some disembowelment.. but yelling and clapping at a tv or being a crazed fan will get your balls cut off in Unkind-country
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unkindloving View Post
    Obnoxious fans, basically. Obnoxious jocks, as well. I don't know many people who are into sports that are redeemable. If i meet some, perhaps my personal opinion will change.
    Well I see sports because theres nothing better to do, if you could show me new ways Id do them instead. But I like a soccer game once a week. Usually with my favorite team.

    Oh and I know several well educated men that would fit your lists perfectly thats still into sports. But then again they are already married so....

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    1. Must Haves
    Very intelligent
    Strong moral integrity & standards
    Spiritual
    Physically attractive to me
    Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, considerate, encouraging, supportive
    Emotionally stable
    Loyal
    Responsible
    Affectionate
    Can lead/take initiative
    Good communication skills
    That undefinable chemistry/spark

    1 1/2. Would likes
    Compatible interests/tastes - art, music, food, travel, etc.
    Compatible humor - witty &/or silly, but no comedian needed
    Creative, special talent/expertise/passion for something
    Intellectual, book smarts, analytical side
    Altruistic
    Warm & expressive
    Spontaneous & adventurous - likes NEW things
    Driven/motivated
    Sexay
    Good style/grooming
    ENFJ

    2. Rather Nots
    Lots of tattoos
    Atheist and/or disrespectful of my beliefs
    Sports freak, or generally more physical than cerebral
    Bald
    Very fat or skinny
    Ugly dress & grooming
    Passive / clingy / whiny
    Very reserved/cold
    Loud
    Health nut or very unhealthy habits

    3. Deal Breakers
    Opposites of my must-haves.
    All the usual stuff: violent, drug use/abuse, dishonest, married, bad hygiene, lazy, etc...
    Argumentative, condescending, rude
    Alcoholism (that is not in check)
    Porn fan
    Smoking
    Kids
    Obese
    Asexual
    Obnoxious
    Military / police / owns a gun
    Domineering
    Stupid relationship games, manipulative

    Man, I could keep going....I swear I am more negotiable than this
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