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    Quote Originally Posted by marmalade.sunrise View Post
    1. Must Haves
    • an intelligent
    • gainfully employed
    • atheist
    • with a penis
    • a sense of humor
    • and a gun
    • who loves me


    Looking over these lists, I am reminded of an ENTP friend who used to say "Love is deciding what kind of fucked up you can deal with." Nobody is going to be perfect, and they're highly unlikely to even fit the list.

    So I can't do it. I can't make the list. Go ahead and take my NF badge away. I'm just not enough of an idealist anymore.
    LOL! I guess lack of penis would be a dealbreaker for me, too. But a gun? I don't get it marmalade.sunrise. Or it that just another euphemism for a penis?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Esoteric Wench View Post
    LOL! I guess lack of penis would be a dealbreaker for me, too. But a gun? I don't get it marmalade.sunrise. Or it that just another euphemism for a penis?
    I've come to realize that I am more of a libertarian socialist, and that if I had children I wouldn't expect the public school system to be able to properly educate them, and at this juncture I don't expect the police to always be able to properly protect me.

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    Must haves:
    • Consideration and acceptance
    • Sense of humor
    • Attractive, at least to me
    • Chivalrous and polite
    • Passion for SOMETHING. (ex. music, art, games, etc.)
    • Imaginative
    • Responsible
    • Sense of style
    • Common sense


    Rather Not:
    • Picky eater
    • Alcoholic
    • Extreme metrosexual
    • Too intelligent(this being cause I sometimes feel inferior)
    • Likes/owns birds...
    • Too conservative or too liberal
    • Porn junkie(Don't really care if the guy watches it every now and again to stay....healthy...but excess of it is frightening..)


    Deal Breakers:
    • Unadventurous
    • Rude
    • Inconsiderate
    • Excessive shyness
    • Clingy
    • Nagging
    • Arrogant and shallow
    • Extreme religiousness
    • Too muscular
    • Controlling

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    Back on track! Yes!

    I think for me, it boils down to 2 basic qualities: integrity/sincerity.

    A guy who's a keeper usually has both IMO. Shows how truly confident of he is. Quiet humbleness. I dig.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stringstheory View Post
    I'm gonna add a list for "prefers" on here, ok? Ok

    Must Haves
    1. Intelligence
    2. Educated/interest in learning or exploring new ideas
    3. Non-religious (aka anyone who believes in the contemporary concept of "God", sorry)
    4. Subverts gender/other social norms, whether intentionally or not
    5. Fun loving and/or a childlike joy. I am willing to accept immaturity as a side-effect of these qualities.
    6. sense of humour
    7. Kindness/empathy/sensitive

    Prefers
    1. Nerds/gamers
    2. 'J' types; i'm a very strong 'P' and i like those who can keep me grounded
    3. Though i prefer someone who is "not religious", preferably enthusiastic about science (though it's ok if it's not on the same spiritual level as me)
    4. Ambivalent about children
    5. Politically aware and/or empathetic for those less fortunate
    6. Awareness of differences of personality (whether it's MBTI or anything else)

    Rather Nots
    1. Competitiveness/Sports fans. Sorry i don't give a shit and i'd prefer not to have to deal with you caring.
    2. Not affectionate, or not willing to be a little more affectionate for my sake.
    3. Of the 'S' persuasion. Sorry, every strong Senser i've ever been with doesn't get me at all, and i don't get them.

    Deal Breakers
    1. Pushy
    2. Self-absorbed
    3. Adheres to social norms without question
    4. Conservative, especially socially. Sorry we won't get along in a relationship, i work with gays.
    5. Controlling/violent
    ^^^^^^
    I think this sums up the sports thing for me... and perhaps a lot of the ladies on this list who put sports fans in the rather not or deal breaker category. Well said, stringstheory. Oh... except for me, I have this visceral hatred of college football. It represents everything I can't stand about colleges and is my least favorite (read hate) cultural touchstone in the Southern United States. Ugh! (I may need to work on getting some balance on this, but not today.) <---- Oh, if you want to actually get up off the couch and play sports, that's OK with me. But watching it on TV? The entire culture surrounding it? Uh uh. Definitely a thumbs down.

    Of the S Persuasion. So true. So true. Except for my Socionics dual which would be ISTP. That's the only kind of S I think I could have a successful dating relationship.

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    Loving the lists so far, NF ladies.

    Must Haves
    - Sense of adventure
    - Sensuality
    - Honest and open communication
    - Wit, cleverness
    - Ability to read me well
    - Interesting and interested
    - Thoughtful
    - A somewhat similar sense of direction in life to mine, so that we can be partners in crime
    - Thoughtful

    Would likes
    - Cheekiness
    - Spontaneity
    - Good taste
    - Romantic and a little chivalric
    - Good masseuse
    - Liberal
    - Active
    - Experimental

    Rather nots
    - Obsession with sports
    - Poor diet
    - Bad taste

    Deal breakers
    - Shallowness
    - Explosive, bad temper
    - Aggressive and domineering (outside of the bedroom )
    - Poor humour
    - Sexist
    - Racist
    - Ignorant
    - Passive-aggressive behaviour; relationship games
    - Snobbery/pretentiousness

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    Yeah, I don't like the whole sports thing either, really I don't.

    Clinical obesity is also unacceptable, as is unfettered rage.

    I have standards of course, I just don't want my list to be unrealistic. I don't want to be alone...with a list.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maddy View Post
    Loving the lists so far, NF ladies.

    Must Haves
    - Sense of adventure
    - Sensuality
    - Honest and open communication
    - Wit, cleverness
    - Ability to read me well
    - Interesting and interested
    - Thoughtful
    - A somewhat similar sense of direction in life to mine, so that we can be partners in crime
    - Thoughtful

    Would likes
    - Cheekiness
    - Spontaneity
    - Good taste
    - Romantic and a little chivalric
    - Good masseuse
    - Liberal
    - Active
    - Experimental

    Rather nots
    - Obsession with sports
    - Poor diet
    - Bad taste

    Deal breakers
    - Shallowness
    - Explosive, bad temper
    - Aggressive and domineering (outside of the bedroom )
    - Poor humour
    - Sexist
    - Racist
    - Ignorant
    - Passive-aggressive behaviour; relationship games
    - Snobbery/pretentiousness
    Wow! Ha ha ha! OK, i might have to agree that one. I think I just set the women's movement back by 20 years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Esoteric Wench View Post
    Wow! Ha ha ha! OK, i might have to agree with that one. I think I just set the women's movement back by 20 years.
    Nah, I don't think that what you want sexually has anything to do with feminist principles in other areas of life. Politics don't belong in people's bedrooms.

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    Marm, you literally just beat me to what I was about to say.
    Embracing your sexuality as a female doesn't make you any less of a feminist. We still hold our intellectual ground.

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