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  1. #421
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    Could you be anymore ENFP?
    I could try.
    "We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"

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    Its strange. I am a list-o-phobe. I dont care if other people have lists, but i dont want to limit myself. I base myself on interaction with that person. I may enjoy something with one person and not another because of one strange thing that the other person does. But that strange thing makes something else fun that wasnt with the other person
    Im out, its been fun

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    must haves:
    smart
    someone i can be my self around, and they be themselves around me
    ambition
    loyal
    taller than me (shallow i know lol)
    shows affection
    butterflies
    creativity
    strong values

    rather nots:
    stuck up
    pot
    critical
    low standards
    younger than me

    Deal breakers:
    FOOOTBAAAAALLLLL.
    bad hygene
    creepyness
    bad additude
    cheaters. ew.
    shows affection before emotionally connected
    speaks of affection before emotionally connected

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    Must Haves
    Chemistry/Spark/Has that special something
    Physical Attraction
    Curious/Intellectual (Reasonably or better)
    Artistic/Creative
    Free/Adventurous/Fun
    Energetic Masculinity and Dominance (if male)
    Has a depth to them so they can understand me

    Bonus Points:
    Wants to travel
    Likes to make excited plans
    Eccentric
    Spiritual/Into Personal Growth



    Rather Not
    Somewhat Abusive
    Doesn't Respect Me
    Not Into Me
    Expects that I'll be Nurturing/Traditional
    Is traditional/wants that kind of life
    Wants kids in the future
    Does 'soft' drugs occasionally


    Deal breakers
    Frequent/Dangerous Abuse
    Not into monogamy
    Has kids
    'Country Boy'
    Excessive Substance Use
    Does not support my spirituality, personal growth, interests, etc. -- drags me down and stifles me


    And I wonder why I'm single
    Not "Revelation"—'tis—that waits,
    But our unfurnished eyes—
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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyVioletBaudelaire View Post
    Rather Not
    Somewhat Abusive
    Doesn't Respect Me
    Am I reading this right? How much abuse are you willing to accept? Say on a scale of 1 to 10?


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    I really wish and hope the answer is 0, but, I really don't know.

    I mean what even is abuse? Does one slap in one argument count, is it worth ending a relationship with someone you love over? Regardless, I doubt I would be that strong. I've seen, for one thing my Mom be abused, though rarely physically. I think it would take exceptional strength to leave someone who you love, who has good-to-just-like-when-we-were-dating days. it can and is done, but would that be me?

    I think, right now, if it was not daily or life-threatening, it would be hard for me to find that sort of strength. I mean, it's a really sad thing to say and a reason I need to stay single, but I don't know where the line separates acceptable and unacceptable. I don't think I would know when to run not walk away.

    Back to the slapping example, what if I felt like I deserved it? I'm not an easy person to be around. It cannot be predicted, but at present, I would not have high hopes for myself.
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    But our unfurnished eyes—
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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyVioletBaudelaire View Post
    I really wish and hope the answer is 0, but, I really don't know.

    I mean what even is abuse? Does one slap in one argument count, is it worth ending a relationship with someone you love over? Regardless, I doubt I would be that strong. I've seen, for one thing my Mom be abused, though rarely physically. I think it would take exceptional strength to leave someone who you love, who has good-to-just-like-when-we-were-dating days. it can and is done, but would that be me?

    I think, right now, if it was not daily or life-threatening, it would be hard for me to find that sort of strength. I mean, it's a really sad thing to say and a reason I need to stay single, but I don't know where the line separates acceptable and unacceptable. I don't think I would know when to run not walk away.

    Back to the slapping example, what if I felt like I deserved it? I'm not an easy person to be around. It cannot be predicted, but at present, I would not have high hopes for myself.
    I can get that. I can understand how it isn't really that simple once you have been involved and invested into a relationship. People will say just leave but I know it isn't always that simple (I still think they should but I realize it isn't easy). But this seems preemptive. You should go into a relationship thinking that any abuse is definitely a deal breaker. And you shouldn't ever feel like you deserve it. I know that I am not an easy person to be around either but I don't think I need to be slapped around. Ever.


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    Guess we can sum this thread up with the words:

    'Must be into me'

    Tho I am quite sure not every male NF would like that
    [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEBvftJUwDw&t=0s[/URL]

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    Why are there not LIKE buttons on here?!?!?!

    NF female deal breaker hmmmmm.....

    false sense of bravado (turn off!)
    liars
    stealer (this disgusts me beyond measure)
    racist / make racist comments (puke!!!)
    not being authentic

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    How do you girls intend to reveal if he is creative. Creativity comes in many flavours.

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