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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    Well, I have dated guys who did not fit that list (I think they helped me form that list)....it's not like I walk around with that in mind, but when I stop & think about it - yeah, that's my ideal.
    Quote Originally Posted by abra View Post
    I hope (and assume) you could describe your ideal more positively and uniquely.
    That might be an interesting exercise.
    grrr.. Hey, be sweet!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kiddykat View Post
    Nice to Have:
    1. Gives great massages
    2. Likes to food prep, bake, do laundry, vacuum.
    3. Handyman with computers.

    Ok.. all jokes aside:
    Must Haves:
    1. Bosom Buddy bond- Best Friend.
    2. Similar sense of humor
    3. Quality heart (treats everyone with respect from young kids to elders, humble, kind)
    4. Loves his family
    5. Similar values

    I think the most important one for me is his heart and similar sense of humor. His heart- because integrity speaks volumes about faithfulness and how committed a person is. Sense of humor? Life's tough. If we both can crack each other up without even trying? Makes the ride that much ezr! Oh and- someone who likes to give piggy back rides, read me a book, and offers a helping hand to strangers. Warm-hearted, spontaneous/down with whatevers.
    Are you saying disrespect is symptomatic of a faulty heart?

    I will fuck you up.
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    So heres my response to some lists....

    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    1. Must Haves
    Very intelligent (okay Im atleast above average)
    Strong moral integrity & standards yes
    Spiritual yes
    Physically attractive to me not really going to be
    Kind, compassionate, thoughtful, considerate, encouraging, supportive yes
    Emotionally stable yes
    Loyal yes very
    Responsible im intp so that might not be something I am a lot
    Affectionate same thing as above but Im average
    Can lead/take initiative actually I can take the lead, I expect that I should actually
    Good communication skills yes
    That undefinable chemistry/spark who knows

    1 1/2. Would likes
    Compatible interests/tastes - art, music, food, travel, etc. I think all in all we have the same or close atleast
    Compatible humor - witty &/or silly, but no comedian needed yes if you like intp humor
    Creative, special talent/expertise/passion for something sort of not really something in particular but all in all, yes
    Intellectual, book smarts, analytical side I would say I am
    Altruistic No
    Warm & expressive No, or above average compared to other NT's
    Spontaneous & adventurous - likes NEW things yes
    Driven/motivated hmmmmm, thats tough, maybe I am driven
    Sexay no
    Good style/grooming hmmmm, no
    ENFJ No, not at all

    2. Rather Nots
    Lots of tattoos no tattooes, yes
    Atheist and/or disrespectful of my beliefs not atheist yes
    Sports freak, or generally more physical than cerebral Im more cerebral than physical but I do enjoy some sports
    Bald not bald, yes
    Very fat or skinny No
    Ugly dress & grooming Hmmmm, average
    Passive / clingy / whiny I can be passive yes, but Im getting better at not being passive
    Very reserved/cold Im average cold
    Loud yes Im not loud
    Health nut or very unhealthy habits Hmmm, as a fat person Im not either, which might surprise some

    3. Deal Breakers
    Opposites of my must-haves. we already covered that
    All the usual stuff: violent, drug use/abuse, dishonest, married, bad hygiene, lazy, etc... Im sure I would fit to those things
    Argumentative, condescending, rude Im not, so yes
    Alcoholism (that is not in check) I like a bottle of wine once a week or so...
    Porn fan Im not a porn fan, so yes
    Smoking Im not smoking
    Kids No kids
    Obese I am kind of obese
    Asexual Im not entirely asexual, its pretty much average
    Obnoxious I dont think so
    Military / police / owns a gun I have no guns or never would want one
    Domineering Its about common respect for me, so Im not domineering
    Stupid relationship games, manipulative I would never do that

    Man, I could keep going....I swear I am more negotiable than this
    wow that was a lot, will respond to others in due time, Im lazy, sorry orange appled might be a break dealer for you *sad face*

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    Quote Originally Posted by abra View Post
    I hope (and assume) you could describe your ideal more positively and uniquely.

    That might be an interesting exercise.
    Why am I being picked on for being honest?
    Should I lie and say I'd be open to dating anyone (pulse optional)? :rolli:
    Should I say, "Yes, I'd be open to dating a lying, violent drug addict who is lazy and obnoxious." I realize those guys get dates, but I have no problem weeding them out.

    EDIT: see, SlowRiot pretty much made it through the gate
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    I'm gonna add a list for "prefers" on here, ok? Ok

    Must Haves
    1. Intelligence
    2. Educated/interest in learning or exploring new ideas
    3. Non-religious (aka anyone who believes in the contemporary concept of "God", sorry)
    4. Fun loving and/or a childlike joy. I am willing to accept immaturity as a side-effect of these qualities.
    5. Kindness/empathy/sensitive (towards me :P)

    Prefers
    1. Nerds/gamers
    2. (Quirky) sense of humour
    3. 'J' types; i'm a very strong 'P' and i like those who can keep me grounded
    4. Though i prefer someone who is "not religious", preferably enthusiastic about science (though not necessarily on the same spiritual level as me)
    5. Subverts gender/other social norms, whether intentionally or not
    6. Ambivalent about children
    7. Politically aware and/or empathetic for those less fortunate
    8. Awareness of differences of personality (whether it's MBTI or anything else) and willingness to work with them
      Rather Nots
      1. Competitiveness/Sports fans. Sorry i don't give a shit and i'd prefer not to have to deal with you caring.
      2. Not affectionate, or not willing to be a little more affectionate for my sake.
      3. Of the 'S' persuasion. Sorry, every strong Senser i've ever been with doesn't get me at all, and i don't get them.

      Deal Breakers
      1. Pushy/arrogant
      2. Self-absorbed
      3. Adheres to social norms without question
      4. Conservative, especially socially. Sorry we won't get along in a relationship, i work with gays.
      5. Controlling/violent
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    Why am I being picked on for being honest?
    Should I lie and say I'd be open to dating anyone (pulse optional)? :rolli:
    Should I say, "Yes, I'd be open to dating a lying, violent drug addict who is lazy and obnoxious." I realize those guys get dates, but I have no problem weeding them out.
    You should reread what I wrote, that's what you should do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kiddykat View Post
    Abra, Srsly? Which part of all jokes aside wasn't clear? If you want to start shit, go elsewhere. I'm stating what I feel in a light-hearted manner. :chill:
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    Why am I being picked on for being honest?
    Should I lie and say I'd be open to dating anyone (pulse optional)? :rolli:
    Should I say, "Yes, I'd be open to dating a lying, violent drug addict who is lazy and obnoxious." I realize those guys get dates, but I have no problem weeding them out.

    Quote Originally Posted by abra View Post
    You should reread what I wrote, that's what you should do.
    what a meanie!

    EDIT: -thinkin ENTJ's suck!-

    Please don't bully my friends! -HINT, HINT-

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    Quote Originally Posted by perfectgirl View Post

    EDIT: -thinkin ENTJ's suck!-
    thinkin ENTJs are hilarious

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    Quote Originally Posted by perfectgirl View Post
    what a meanie!

    EDIT: -thinkin ENTJ's suck!-

    Please don't bully my friends! -HINT, HINT-
    Could I get a translation here?
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