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    Quote Originally Posted by perfectgirl View Post
    ^wow, picky, lol! I'm not as particular in the outward as the inward, so...
    um, hair is unimportant. bald is maybe sexy...
    tattoos, no tattoos... how does that matter?

    Yeah, clingy sux!... deal breaker.
    Those aren't must-haves....just ideal preferences. I'm not that picky about looks either - I've dated some guys that many people would call ugly. But I also know that physical attraction has it's rightful place in a romantic relationship, and I know what I usually do and don't find attractive. Bald & tattoos are not deal-breakers, but they are also not attractive to me. It would be something I'd have to overlook.

    And yeah, I am kind of picky, but I think they're reasonable standards.
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    ^Understood. I sorta find stuff I don't have kinda interesting...


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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    1. Must Haves
    Strong moral integrity & standards (This along with spiritual is up for debate, but I've gone with conventional understandings of the terms and therefore accepted that I have neither quality)
    Spiritual
    That undefinable chemistry/spark

    1 1/2. Would likes

    Altruistic
    ENFJ

    2. Rather Nots
    Atheist and/or disrespectful of my beliefs
    Very fat or skinny

    3. Deal Breakers
    drug use/abuse
    lazy
    Argumentative
    Porn fan
    Obnoxious
    these are the only things I don't qualify for.

    So I don't think it's all that unrealistic, keep gunning for him! (or let's hook up )
    wails from the crypt.

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    1. Must Haves
    • an intelligent
    • gainfully employed
    • atheist
    • with a penis
    • a sense of humor
    • and a gun
    • who loves me


    Looking over these lists, I am reminded of an ENTP friend who used to say "Love is deciding what kind of fucked up you can deal with." Nobody is going to be perfect, and they're highly unlikely to even fit the list.

    So I can't do it. I can't make the list. Go ahead and take my NF badge away. I'm just not enough of an idealist anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    1. Must Haves
    Very intelligent

    2. Rather Nots
    Very reserved/cold
    Health nut or very unhealthy habits
    In my experience, "very intelligent" people only find contradictions cute for a short while. The funny thing about these lists is that the people described would often never date the type of person/personality who would write such a list!

    *I* think the best thing for, let's call them "list makers" is to learn to recognize their own flaws and meet more people!


    I'm not an NF but since I'm here I'll make a list:

    1. I am happy being around them
    2. Why?
    3. Good cook

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    Must-haves: NOTHING (especially not 'gainfully employed'.. shudder)
    Rather not: NOTHING
    deal breaker: NOTHING

    ...but I'm a man
    "If you would convince a man that he does wrong, do right. But do not care to convince him. Men will believe what they see. Let them see."
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    Quote Originally Posted by abra View Post
    these are the only things I don't qualify for.

    So I don't think it's all that unrealistic, keep gunning for him! (or let's hook up )
    Well, I have dated guys who did not fit that list (I think they helped me form that list)....it's not like I walk around with that in mind, but when I stop & think about it - yeah, that's my ideal.
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    Quote Originally Posted by foolish heart View Post
    In my experience, "very intelligent" people only find contradictions cute for a short while. The funny thing about these lists is that the people described would often never date the type of person/personality who would write such a list!

    *I* think the best thing anyone spending so much time figuring out what they want in someone else is to learn to recognize their own flaws and meet more people!


    Those aren't contradictions. And maybe, I've met TOO MANY people.
    My must-haves is all internal character qualities - I make no apologies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    Well, I have dated guys who did not fit that list (I think they helped me form that list)....it's not like I walk around with that in mind, but when I stop & think about it - yeah, that's my ideal.
    I hope (and assume) you could describe your ideal more positively and uniquely.

    That might be an interesting exercise.
    wails from the crypt.

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    NF females? This is sexism. :steam:
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