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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    Blimey, NFs are picky!
    Why are you always falling for such losers then?
    Because of too much optimism/idealism.

    Nice to see that i would easily pass about all criteria of every enfp

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    Blimey, NFs are picky!
    Why are you always falling for such losers then?
    Because they are too busy idealising the men because of their own insecurities. There, I said it...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Xellotath View Post
    // Must Have:
    1 ) Already gone through a formal existential crisis

    // Would be _Really_ lovely if he had:
    1 ) A philosophically postmodern / deconstructive outlook
    3 ) An artistic outlet
    4 ) An academic area of research

    // Eww. Bye.

    1 ) Obsession with mysticism. I want to talk about relationships, not about whether my female energy interfered with the 5th house in my astrology chart, as predicted by the tarot reading he made at midnight, after he invoked Lillith in a Wiccan ritual.
    2 ) Nationalism, racism, homophobia, misoginy, sexism.
    3 ) Losing sleep over unfalsifiable conspiracy theories. Unless you're a govenment security agent, I dont necessarily care that 9/11 was an inside job devised by the illuminati so they'll create a new world order and enslave the rest of us with the brainwashing power of Britney Spears. Really.
    7 ) Problem with vegetarians / vegans. (That part of my lifestyle is symbolic, I can co-exist just fine with carnivores)
    Xellotath, this list was both thoughtful... and funny. My favorite ones are highlighted in red.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xellotath View Post
    // Must Have:
    1 ) Already gone through a formal existential crisis
    2 ) Open-ness to experience
    3 ) Imagination
    4 ) A desire to be internally consistent (logically or emotionally)
    5 ) .... Tolerance for Depeche Mode.
    6 ) Directness

    // Would be _Really_ lovely if he had:
    1 ) A philosophically postmodern / deconstructive outlook
    2 ) Decent health
    3 ) An artistic outlet
    4 ) An academic area of research

    // Eww. Bye.

    1 ) Obsession with mysticism. I want to talk about relationships, not about whether my female energy interfered with the 5th house in my astrology chart, as predicted by the tarot reading he made at midnight, after he invoked Lillith in a Wiccan ritual.
    2 ) Nationalism, racism, homophobia, misoginy, sexism.
    3 ) Losing sleep over unfalsifiable conspiracy theories. Unless you're a govenment security agent, I dont necessarily care that 9/11 was an inside job devised by the illuminati so they'll create a new world order and enslave the rest of us with the brainwashing power of Britney Spears. Really.
    4 ) Loudness.
    5 ) Clowns. Both professional and metaphorical. I would be worried if he was the funniest guy in the room.
    6 ) Animal cruelty.
    7 ) Problem with vegetarians / vegans. (That part of my lifestyle is symbolic, I can co-exist just fine with carnivores)
    haha, obsession with mysticism is a definite "no"!
    "Develop interest in life as you see it...the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself." -- H. Miller
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    You have no idea, but this is the wisest list in the whole thread:

    Quote Originally Posted by hokie912 View Post
    I'll just list must-haves:
    1. Fundamentally kind
    2. Sexually attractive to me and vice versa
    3. Intelligent with some compatible interests
    4. Sense of humor
    5. Stable, i.e. not violent, drug-addicted, etc.
    "Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one."
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    other things become ugly.
    When people see some things as good,
    other things become bad."
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    I think I'll go back and delete my list in the NT thread, which was only descriptive anyway.

    I'd just rather meet the guy and go from there, seeing all this junk makes me realize this is far too much work and rigidity for me.

    It either clicks or it doesn't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    I'd just rather meet the guy and go from there, seeing all this junk makes me realize this is far too much work and rigidity for me.

    It either clicks or it doesn't.
    Yeah I kind of have to agree with you. I can think of things that I tend to find unattractive, but I can't say it would necessarily be a dealbreaker. It either clicks or it doesn't.
    Your kisses, sweeter than honey. But guess what, so is my money.

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    Do you even know what clicking means at a neurological level? Your brain is making these lists whether you know it or not, consciously or subconsciously you do have well defined criteria.

    I don't judge people based on lists, but I do have my standards, and there is nothing wrong with that.



    I mean, these threads were for shits and giggles anyway right? That's the whole point.

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    Must haves

    very intelligent
    empathic
    adventurous
    knows himself well / mature
    good looking to me
    good in bed
    loves music
    passionate


    (i think i'm actually describing ENFP male... )



    Rather nots

    religious
    very into sports
    very short
    ugly

    Deal breakers

    very religious / fanatic
    never reads
    unintelligent


    i'll edit when i think of more...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Do you even know what clicking means at a neurological level? Your brain is making these lists whether you know it or not, consciously or subconsciously you do have well defined criteria.

    I don't judge people based on lists, but I do have my standards, and there is nothing wrong with that.
    Yeah it's true. I have no idea how to articulate what clicking is for me. Like you say, I have subconscious criteria, or at least find particular traits/behaviors to be attractive or unattractive. I have tried to articulate to myself in the past, and I just don't like how awkward the list becomes while still being tremendously imprecise.
    Your kisses, sweeter than honey. But guess what, so is my money.

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