I consider myself pretty unhealthy now but I blame others for most things and I have a supreme lack of self actualization. My nitpicking seems reasonable. She won't listen to me even if it means not having food in the house and I nitpick about her refusing to put together a budget and be half way efficient with money.
I think I'm pretty unhealthy. My mood swings aren't as bad but I still have random depression and a desire to be the center of all drama (that I've learned to quell, but the desire is still there.) Mostly I get this completely bizarre existential detachment from my friends when I should be having a good time with them. I think my parents are to blame mostly, fuckers.
I also stubbornly refuse to go to therapy, repression probably isn't that healthy either.
“You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.” -Nietzsche
I considered myself an healthy enfp. But in my teens I was pretty unhealthy. I didn't used any substances and wasn't a partying animal but I did hurt people. What I learn is their are times when I might slip into an unhealthy state but I'm quick get myself out of that state. Having experiencing a life of a healthy enfp- I don't want to go back! I can't stand hurting people!
Death must be so beautiful. To lie in the soft brown earth, with the grasses waving above one's head, and listen to silence. To have no yesterday, and no to-morrow. To forget time, to forgive life, to be at peace."
— Sylvia Plath (The Bell Jar)
"Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for granted."
— Sylvia Plath
I don't know if I'm thoroughly unhealthy or surprisingly healthy for an ENFP. I could just be normal too but, and I'm not saying this to stroke my ego and wanting to be more different, it doesn't seem likely considering what I read of what other ENFPs.
Funny how I don't check off any of those. I'd like more positive reinforcement, but I don't search for it. In fact you can say the words that come out of my mouth are often only getting me negative reinforcement and I still indulge in contrarianism anyway :P