Hi, INFP here... 2 months ago, my friendship with my ENFP bestfriend ended after 13 years! This is what happened: I moved to another town, got a new job and a new boyfriend a little too fast for her. She took the sudden lack of communication very personally and FREAKED OUT. I was busy! All of a sudden she thought it was because I hated her and then she accused me of being a horrible friend and that she couldn't trust me anymore. And while she was making up conspiracy theories in her head about how I was out to get her... she decided to strike out against me by flirting with and propositioning my ex fiance to get revenge on me. Wowwwww...... crazy and insecure much? Her actual words: "Well you might not want to ignore me because it made me think you hated me so I flirted with Daniel to get back at you." First off, I wasn't ignoring her. Every time we talked it was because I instigated the conversation. She was mad because she didn't have so much of my attention as she did before I got a life! She was jealous and she was so scared of potential rejection that she started trying to get revenge on me for her own imagination.
After that I just needed a break from her. I was tired of her excuses of "Oh I did this and this because I thought.... or because you did this and I thought.... Or someone told me this and I thought...." And then when I pointed out to her that she makes up stories in her head she would not own up to it or apologize, she just kept making up excuses about how all of these other circumstances validated her conclusions and so she had every right to do what she did without asking me first. And so I stopped talking to her because I had enough and to this day she hates me for judging her. I am a bad friend for being busy and getting upset that she tries to get revenge on me behind my back for things I've never done because she's jealous but she's A GREAT FRIEND and anything she's ever done wrong is my fault and I made her do it. That's mature. Lol