Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
I think this may be a general freelancing issue. You really have to defend your time and teach people to value your resources and expertise.

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Basically ,they put the control back in their hands.

I'm pretty sure as a 'J' you could do this, too.

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ould have preferred if she had just said "It seems like you are having trouble making these classes and we need people here consistently for this to work, I think you should really re-evaluate if this is something you can commit to." <-- Pretty standard language in the volunteer world.

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The message itself - that you control your time 100% and people can't push you around - is fine.
Thanks, thanks, thanks. I should make it a project to learn those standard phrases. And practise them so they sound natural.