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    Was E.laur Laurie's Avatar
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    As the freshman treasurer in college I was supposed to give a speech about myself to the entire freshman class. (400 people maybe?) I never prepared anything. I just stood up in front of the class and babbled for a few minutes. My friend said that it was an introduction into what Laurie was like. Heh.

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    This isn't a major flake moment, but I notice ENFPs will promise a lot of people to spend time with them on a given day, so what ends up happening is they will dart around not really able spending that much time with the different people. Or this might then turn into a big group event, with all the different people all together, which can be fun. But it may disappoint if you really hoped to spend quality one-on-one time with the ENFP.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vasilisa View Post
    This isn't a major flake moment, but I notice ENFPs will promise a lot of people to spend time with them on a given day, so what ends up happening is they will dart around not really able spending that much time with the different people. Or this might then turn into a big group event, with all the different people all together, which can be fun. But it may disappoint if you really hoped to spend quality one-on-one time with the ENFP.
    very true
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    ENFP friend promised to help me paint & move - I called her when the time came, aaaand she flaked.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    ENFP friend promised to help me paint & move - I called her when the time came, aaaand she flaked.
    Id be pissed. =/

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    This weekend I was suppose to help my aunt clean out my grandmother's house, take my dog to the vet, go to my graduation, and take a trip with my family to Louisiana's border.

    I didn't make the graduation. I literally had 12 hours of stuff to do packed into 4-5.

    I'm terrible with phone messages too. "I'll call ya back!" I say. I genuinely mean to everytime.. but usually my mind instantly dumps that call later memo into the "suggestion box" which happens to be linked to a furnace. My mind has no idea that it's phone message memos alone have been keeping my entire body warm for most of my life. I'm actually cold-blooded.

    Text messages? If I get them right then and there and am capable of responding to them, I'll do so. Otherwise, tough luck. I'm just no good with the phone.

    Got a birthday? You better have a facebook to remind me of it. Or send me a not-so-subtle hint on it. If It isn't my immediate family or best friend, I have no idea when your birthday is. I guarantee it. Like the furniture commercial, but more reliable than that. ...Not me, the guarantee. Even with my best friend.. I bought her present months in advanced. All wrapped, ready to go in my room. I lost track of calendar days and thought it was still mid-april when it was actually late april.. It was well into May before I realized what day it actually was.
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    Hmm... Maybe I'm not an ENFP... I don't really flake like this. Sometimes I'm a few minutes late. Maybe it's my enneagram that helps counter my ENFP flakiness.
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    Was E.laur Laurie's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    Text messages? If I get them right then and there and am capable of responding to them, I'll do so. Otherwise, tough luck. I'm just no good with the phone.
    My brother calls my house "the place phone calls go to die" and other such things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elaur View Post
    My brother calls my house "the place phone calls go to die" and other such things.
    I laughed so hard when I read this. Hysterical. And so true.

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    Slightly related... this morning on my way to work I stopped at a drive through to get a drink. The lady at the window greeted me with "good afternoon." :p

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