[ENFP] ESFJs and ENFPs

[Virtual ghost]

I'm... kinda scared to death of the prospect of dating an SFJ. :horor: It'd be like dating my mother.

So what? At least you will be given the oportunity to feel that you had your revenge against your mother by harming the girl. So once you solved your feelings you can just dump her if you don't need her anymore. (I mean SFJs can take alot just for the sake of harmony/connection)

 

[Esoteric Wench]

That's kind of why I like the INFJ and ESFJ over the ENTJ and INTJ. The feeling function really cushions the judging function. They're a little less... harsh with their thoughts.

I thought this was very interesting what you said. And, I think my experience supports this.

My xxTJ friends are wonderful and intellectually stimulating but sometimes they can say things that bug the crap out of me. I say to myself, "How could you be so insensitive to XXX's feelings? You could have couched that much better." F must trump the J in many cases for xxFJs.

 

[Aleksei]

So what? At least you will be given the oportunity to feel that you had your revenge against your mother by harming the girl. So once you solved your feelings you can just dump her if you don't need her anymore. (I mean SFJs can take alot just for the sake of harmony/connection)

I love my mother, and I'm not that much of a dick in any case.

My mom is actually ENFP; she just has way more Te than I can tolerate in someone living with me. so I'm afraid of all the nagging.

 

[Hellokittykitty]

^^^

Oh darling .. Stop speculating .. Although please don't ask him if he is fake, lol. How do you know he is not interested? You need to be direct and tell him you want to do naughty things to him .. Bite the bullet and go for it. That's exactly what i'd do.

Good luck.

he's also a hardcore Christian. Lol we are working in a film together ( co directing) but he just seems to be nice. And when I joke I don't think he gets it bc he doesn't even react!!!

I'm like omg! Laugh at my funnys please!!! Lol

He is so hot but he's so innocent YIKES! lol

 

[Chloe]

i could see esfj working more than intj for me

you may regret saying that. I did.
...

lol. Now I regret saying this bad intj expirience!

and also I regret saying that ESFJ is not good match. Because I figured my biggest love in life, for now, was ESFJ.

Lesson: MBTI is not good for matchmaking.

 

[Xellotath]

ESFJ?

Fe at the front + Si aux?

But I kind of like life....

 

[great_bay]

ESFJ's are in a higher ranking than ENFP's. ESFJ use ENFP's weakness which is introverted sensing. I'm interested in this relation as friendship or romantic partners.