As far as meeting girls goes, I'd suspect that would depend on the girl. What kind of girl is your type (i.e. bad girl, good girl, etc)? There are some people out there (girls and guys) that prefer the bad boy/girl - so with that type being "nice" probably wouldn't get you too far at first, but there are plenty of people that are looking specifically for a "nice guy" too... So, I guess what I'm saying is it all depends on you and what you're into. Not that I am anything close to an expert on relationships - this is just my two-cents.