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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    IGNORE HIM at all costs. If you respond, its almost like you are giving into him.
    Yeah, I've ignored all his texts after I texted him saying that "we have nothing else to talk about, you apologized and I forgave you. This stuff you keep texting me is the reason we can't be friends."

    After some angry texts, he sent me the one saying that he gives up. It seems like it was too easy this time though...last time he called me about 42 times a day, making me have to block his phone number x_x

    He said that he's maned up now, though, so I hope he really has and respects me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by groovejet02 View Post
    Tell him that it's over, there's nothing more to discuss and threaten to call the cops on him if he continues to harass you.
    He actually dared me to call the cops once, because he didn't care what it took to talk to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    He actually dared me to call the cops once, because he didn't care what it took to talk to me.
    His behaviour makes him sound like a psycho. Cut him out of your life as thoroughly as possible and if necessary call the cops.

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    You are feeding his insanity when you communicate with him.

    End all contact.
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    This will not end well...
    But it will at least be poetic, I suppose...

    Hmm... But what if it does end well?
    Then I suppose it will be a different sort of poetry, a preferable sort...
    A sort I could become accustomed to...



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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    He said that he's maned up now, though, so I hope he really has and respects me.
    Don't place any bets on that.
    INTJ | 5w4 - Sp/Sx/So | 5-4-(9/1) | RLoEI | Melancholic-Choleric | Johari & Nohari

    This will not end well...
    But it will at least be poetic, I suppose...

    Hmm... But what if it does end well?
    Then I suppose it will be a different sort of poetry, a preferable sort...
    A sort I could become accustomed to...



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    Any response you give him is like telling a kid you aren't going to buy them candy at the grocery store and then, when they throw a temper tantrum, giving them a chocolate bar. It rewards the behavior and causes it to continue.
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    Ok, thanks everyone for your opinions. He's already avoiding me in every way possible, so that makes it easy to cut off all communication. So, I just hope he keeps it up, cuz I don't wanna have to start going to a different church just to get away from him >_<
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    Ok, thanks everyone for your opinions. He's already avoiding me in every way possible, so that makes it easy to cut off all communication. So, I just hope he keeps it up, cuz I don't wanna have to start going to a different church just to get away from him >_<
    I hope he leaves you alone. It really sucks for an introvert to get settled into a new church.
    “There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovereeses View Post
    Ok, thanks everyone for your opinions. He's already avoiding me in every way possible, so that makes it easy to cut off all communication. So, I just hope he keeps it up, cuz I don't wanna have to start going to a different church just to get away from him >_<
    That's what you get for dating someone religious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    That's what you get for dating someone religious.
    He might not be religious for long... because God's obviously not answering his prayers.

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