i would be interested to hear if there are infjs who are in relationships that are super-charged with emotional currency over the long haul.
it seems like it would be a good topic to talk about--if the kind of overly gushy expectations many infjs have are
it seems like the most healthy infjs opt for nts. i'm wondering if this is true, and if experiences with other Fs have challenged that, and if gender affects this overall balance.
i'm also wondering if there's a difference between the kind of gushy "emotionally fulfilling" relationship infjs are seeking and
a. communication that allows you to feel truly understood
b. inspiration (that makes you believe in possibilities for the future)
i know i can get inspired by both Fi and Ti for different reasons, but largely bc they help me see possibilities. i'm wondering if infjs are just attracted to the grounding qualities of these judging functions, the relevancy factor that allows them to build an inner foundation and move outward from there.