I personally think people say I'm difficult because I don't conform to what they want me to do. sometimes, i feel like people are trying to control me, so i may oppose to what they say and what they want me to do, but not all the time. I think enfp naturally just go against the mold, we are advocator or champion, we have to be different.
I don't want to be difficult, but i can't help but to be myself. Because I like to go with the flow all the time. I'm not difficult all the time, only on my morals and views.