can you help a sista out???
here is my story:
. . . so my 30 year old BOYfriend tells me that his mother is having a "sweet 16" birthday party for his sister & her best friends at a hotel this weekend so they can go swimming & go to a nearby groovy mall & be all girly & stuff. his mom reserved 3 rooms- one for the teenaged girls, one for herself & one for my boyfriend (and his son) and he asked me if i'd like to join them for his kid sisters party. i was a total bastard and said . . . "ah, no thanks- that is not my bag".
so help me. i feel bad for not wanting to go . . . but i also feel like he is either a mama's boy for going or he is a weirdo . . . like wouldn't any normal guy say to his mom, "hell no, are you insane?" help me with my confusing feelings. how would you guys feel? what would you do? i've never dated a guy like this before. i'm kinda grossed out.