yes, definitely some people are trusted more than others... see my description of how i function with Fi.Also-if you cannot trust others, how do you determine who to trust emotionally? I typically block everyone honestly and let nobody close via engaging with Te, not Fi. But if I did try and engage more openly with Fi, can you describe how you do so in a graduated fashion-I guess a slower unveiling? Are there degrees of trust-some people are trusted more than others perhaps? Both may be Fi connections but on different levels?
i try to go to myself before i blame. i might blame in my head, but before i blame to someone's face i wish to be sure about my feelings. sometimes the negativity just comes out, but i always regret acting that way. i don't dwell on issues with trusted people. if i have a real problem with you, you'll hear about it and i will listen. with people i don't trust/ know, i figure it doesn't matter. sometimes the feeling goes away naturally (if the stressful situation doesn't continue) while i process it in my head. i am not easily angered.Also-blame? To me it seems like I have to get it out of the way, so that all negativity goes away. The easiest way is just to accept it, and relieve the other person of that blame, then dismiss it. Then we can talk or just move on, as everything is forgiven. If you dont accept blame, how do you work through the issue-do you go item by item in discussion, not to blame, but to understand? I really have no idea.