The ENFP is more open to going with the flow of things. They're also perhaps a bit more wholistic in their approach. The idea of letting the chips falls as they may gives me the chills. I've usually felt drawn towards some specific purpose or destination, as laid back as people typically consider me to be. Unlike my SJ friends though, I tend to not get too upset when my plans go awry, or when things turn out differently than I originally believed. So while I seek and follow a definitive direction, I'm not easily disturbed when things don't go as imagined. I attribute that to not seeing things in black and white. There's always another perspective; another direction to turn and path to follow.
Also, I rarely, if ever, give unsolicited advice(a common EJs association); but once asked, I'm known to tell it exactly how I see it, and tend to be so straight forward that many of my friends believed me to be an ENTJ.