Sorry I am assuming I found a pot of gold with access to so many INFPs. Well, she admitted to "being really into you" at the beginning...and now she likes me and cares about me, that much she said last night. I asked her for the terms of the break, and she said there are no terms. It's just whatever we feel like. Since she had just told me I was too black and white, and pressuring her too much, I felt like not trying to dig further into the terms. That's why I feel like this is a break-up. Because unclear and vague to me is very uncomfortable. However, as I mentioned to her, being ok in the gray zone is an area for self improvement. So here I am. Also, thanks again for your input. This is really very useful for my head and heart.