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  • tender

    11 13.10%
  • rough

    12 14.29%
  • either way, depending upon my mood.

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    Default NFs: How do you like it?

    *giggles*

    Curious to see how this will pan out.

    Left the vote private, because I know I'm bashful about these things.
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    Eating cookies in bed. Let's see now. Being tender about it tends not to create too many crumbs. Roughing it = too many crumbs, that's not that pleasant. Still, I guess the best course of action to eat cookies in bed would be to do it either way, I'm just moody like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brendan View Post
    *giggles*

    Curious to see how this will pan out.

    Left the vote private, because I know I'm bashful about these things.
    So, Brendan, what's your conclusion?
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    Either way, and, let it be known, that it can be rough, very rough yet still quite tender at the same time....

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    Rough love making for me.

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    always depends on my mood...which, of course, can change multiple times in one session personally i think having it both ways makes for a rather satisfying roller coaster of emotions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    Eating cookies in bed. Let's see now. Being tender about it tends not to create too many crumbs. Roughing it = too many crumbs, that's not that pleasant. Still, I guess the best course of action to eat cookies in bed would be to do it either way, I'm just moody like that.
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    it ain't sex if you ain't bleeding out of your eyes



    also: i kind of expect every NF poll to be swayed overwhelmingly toward "whatever I feel like"

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    I'm a guy and I almost always prefer tender.

    I noticed I only wanted it rougher when I felt my partner starting to distance herself from me. If the love was there, for me, the sex would be easy, tender, and effortless - no need for the extra rough stuff.

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