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    Default ENFJs get mad?

    What are all these jokes I see on this forum about ENFJs being these big bad people when they get mad?

    Ive never seen this, I dont even know where it comes from. The (few) ENFJs I know dont seem to get upset ever. Usually you dont even know if what you're seeing are the true emotions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Malkavia View Post
    What are all these jokes I see on this forum about ENFJs being these big bad people when they get mad?

    Ive never seen this, I dont even know where it comes from. The (few) ENFJs I know dont seem to get upset ever. Usually you dont even know if what you're seeing are the true emotions.
    <---one right here

    I don't think your lookin in the right neighborhood homey..

    The ENFJs I know can turn gangster in the blink of an eye.

    It usually comes from either observing or feeling some kind of injustice.
    Last edited by Hate; 04-21-2010 at 07:37 PM. Reason: typo

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    I have an ENFJ coworker. He rarely gets angry, but when he does you don't want to be anywhere near him. One minute he'll seem perfectly normal and then he'll just snap and go into this intense rage. His face gets red and all scrunched up and he yells a lot. Then he cools back down back to normal. I've noticed it happens when he's really stressed out. I think he bottles it up and then just unleashes all his frustrations at once, unfortunately on whoever made him snap.

    He snapped on me once. When he was busy, I unknowingly started a conversation about something that was really stressing him out. Before I knew it he was yelling at me to get the fuck out of his office and all that good stuff. He apologized about an hour later.

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    They do.

    And it's not pretty.

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    It takes much provocation, and I've learned quite a bit about how to temper myself and shift my perspective. Nonetheless, when I'm really angry, it's deep, and it's evil.
    There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made, and which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the interspaces of the universe.

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    all should fear the wrath of ENFJs

    My sis is one, and my ex fiance is one, both have a great capacity for anger, which they vent with the glee of a destroying angel of sorts... it's SCARY
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    Really? I just cant imagine this.

    Ive been best friends with an ENFJ for a couple of years now...and we even room together. I have never seen this. (I secretly want to I guess)

    I work with another ENFJ and have never seen in it, however I assume I would see it in my roommate before my coworker.

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    noooo! you don't WANT to see it! Nobody does anger better than an ENFJ... NOBODY!!!

    beleive me, I've seen it often enough
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    It's rare but it happens and you don't want to be around it.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    noooo! you don't WANT to see it! Nobody does anger better than an ENFJ... NOBODY!!!

    beleive me, I've seen it often enough
    People saying things like this just makes me want to see it more. Not taken out on me of course.... I hope I would never put people I love over the edge like that.

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