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    So how do the rest of ENFJs handle the anger? Right now, I REALLY want to chew someone out against my better judgement. I just hold it all in and then become the Incredible Hulk at the last straw.

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    I agree with needing to have motivation behind my anger before I show it. If I can't find a good reason for having that anger, though it is difficult at times, I do my best to let it go. Sometimes it builds up to where I have to just scream, at that point I'm usually alone so as to not strike fear into others hearts, but it is coming out one way or another.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ReflecttcelfeR View Post
    I agree with needing to have motivation behind my anger before I show it. If I can't find a good reason for having that anger, though it is difficult at times, I do my best to let it go. Sometimes it builds up to where I have to just scream, at that point I'm usually alone so as to not strike fear into others hearts, but it is coming out one way or another.
    That's a great way to put it. Also, I think if the ENFJ is getting stressed, his fuse gets shorter and shorter. Stress + a little irritant= bad combo! KABOOM

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    Angry music also tends to do wonders when anger comes around. Shouting the lyrics tires me out so I just don't have enough energy to stay mad.

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    hahaha, CLOSET EMO. I am one too. *high-five*

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    *high-five*

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    Thank you. I feel tons better now! Now time for my paper, lol.

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    I'm glad I could help!

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    LOL Closet Emo....

    I just laughed really awkwardly loud and people looked at me.
    (snicker)

    The angry music thing does help.
    Do any of you other ENFJ's feel like you have a completely Evil side to you? Sometimes, when I let stress/anger build up, it's like something is inside of me that's not human, its HORRIBLE. So I do my best to always stay calm and happy.

    I wonder why we get this way. but then again, I would assume it's impossible to be happy and helpful all of the time... Any thoughts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kymlee View Post
    LOL Closet Emo....

    I just laughed really awkwardly loud and people looked at me.
    (snicker)

    The angry music thing does help.
    Do any of you other ENFJ's feel like you have a completely Evil side to you? Sometimes, when I let stress/anger build up, it's like something is inside of me that's not human, its HORRIBLE. So I do my best to always stay calm and happy.

    I wonder why we get this way. but then again, I would assume it's impossible to be happy and helpful all of the time... Any thoughts?

    To me it looks like that every ENFJ needs someone who will help them explore their dark side without any prejudices.

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