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    ENFJ can articulate anger as easily as love.

    Thankfully, not nearly as often (in most cases).
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    I don't know much about ENFJ's personally, but looking at the Interaction Styles and temperament, ENJ-Choleric, and NF Phlegmatic or the fifth temperament Supine which are the total opposite. Choleric is aggressive and critical, while NF is peace seeking. (Keirsey says NF is Choleric, which would make this the "pure" Choleric type, but it clearly has an aspect of it that is opposite of Choleric). So they try to be peaceful, but can react if they feel crossed. And Supine has its own propensity to react hostilly if they feel used. (Which happens a lot when people take advantage of their service, and Keirsey apparently interpreted as "choleric" reaction).
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    ENFJ angry is scary as hell...
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    Quote Originally Posted by gromit View Post
    ENFJ angry is scary as hell...
    oh yes we are.....
    but usually when we cool down, we're the first one to make a move towards peace and forgiveness. Rage, is definitely a correct term for ENFJ anger though. (if not a little understated)
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    I wouldn't say we fly off the handle too frequently, but it can build up and come across as a wrath unlike any other.
    I'd advise anyone never to take an ENFJ's intense caring and selflessness as a sign of weakness. Also, it's more of a verbal violence than a physical one, at least for me.

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    Perhaps your ENFJ just has a higher tolerance or a better handle on his destruction-mode. That tends to happen over time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainne View Post
    They do.

    And it's not pretty.
    ^ This.

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    'Cause you can't handle me...

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    Angry ENFJ ? Sound like a good forplay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    Angry ENFJ ? Sound like a good forplay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    Angry ENFJ ? Sound like a good forplay.
    :blushing: If someone can handle it, i'm inclined to say Daaamn Straight.
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    I've been told I'm cute when I'm angry, contrary to how I feel when I'm angry.
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