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    Senior Member HotpinkHeatwave's Avatar
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    Default Confrontational ENFP - unusual?

    Less than twenty minutes ago, in school, I set my stuff (books, etc.) down on a table in our library, assuming that is where I was going to sit. Quickly I left to go to the bathroom, and when I came back, I found my stuff was missing, and two people occupied the four person table. At first I was just going to grab my belongings ON THE OTHER SIDE of the room and let it go, but I just couldn't. Instead, I walked up to the two, and calmly asked 'Did you move my stuff?'. Of course, the reply was 'Yes' with a staredown. I took this an ran with it. The female would not look at me, but the male was nearly challenging. It pissed me off. 'You could have just moved my stuff over, I would have grabbed it when I came back. You didn't have to move it across the room, that is rude.' The conversation went on for a few more lines, ending with me walking away angrily and saying, 'Don't touch my shit you little fucker.'

    Yeah, I am USUALLY like this. If you give me a reason to bitch, i'll bitch.

    Is this usual for an ENFP?

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    *Subscribed and looking forwards to the replies*

    Lol
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    I'd like to refer you to the ENFP bitchslap thread from awhile back...It covered many facets of how this can play out.

    Yeah, we can get a little pissy, be very direct, and quite confrontational if you piss us off.

    It can be angry or just be direct.

    But yeah I rarely back down if I am correct. My ideal solution is to logically, line by line, address and issue and seek resolution.

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    If someone is an asshole, and I'm in a bad mood.

    normally, I just smile at the world to make friends and make people happy


    but today for instance I purposefully knocked slightly into some silly girl who didnt look before standing up in the dining hall. she said sorry very nicely. I ignored her & walked on.


    but this is extremely unusual for me...
    I live my life for the stars that shine & people say its just a waste of time- Oasis

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    When people arent considerate it gets me angry, although I try to stay composed.

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    Striving for balance Little Linguist's Avatar
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    Yes, I am confrontational, but it is never for no reason. It is either because I think someone has been unfair to me, is acting like a total moronic dipshit and I don't want them to do something bad to themselves, or because they are holding me back in some way.

    Then, I'm a steamroller. But I really have an overly developed Te....

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    I'm a sweet person all the time, like all NFs.

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    I'm very confrontational yeah, and why would one not act like you did in that situation even? I'm not some pinball in this world to just adapt to how others are for the sake of a false sense of harmony.

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    Depending on the situation, I give people a killer look that makes them crawl under their desks, or I go up to them and Te bitch-slap them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Linguist View Post
    Depending on the situation, I give people a killer look that makes them crawl under their desks, or I go up to them and Te bitch-slap them.
    You are a funny woman.

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