I inadvertently insulted and offended a friend who is an INFJ. It has been a few days and he is still mad, sending sarcastic responses to my emails. :steam:
As an IsFP (Peacemaker) forgiveness comes so easily to me. I know that I myself am not perfect and can be insensitive. Therefore I easily forgive others who have hurt me and later have shown remorse.
So I don't understand why it is taking him so long to forgive despite my heartfelt apologies. I seem to be making the matter worse by trying to explain and defend my offensive comments. I don't want to lose this friendship. I don't know what else to do?
I don't know if this means that I am not worth granting forgiveness. I tend to forgive those who are most significant in my life more easily over those who are not. Is that the same with INFJs? Or are they just hypersensitive the more they care what you think of them?
Thanks for your response.