Billy: Aloof, head in the clouds, too future oriented, very gooey emotionally, looking to smooth out all the rough edges of life and bring peace, meaning and harmony to all, but completely lacking in bringing peace to myself and making sure my day to day needs are met properly. Couldnt balance a checkbook if I tried, I give too much of my money away.
Meaghan: Calculated precision, highly intelligent (she nailed a 1560 on her SATs, not that that makes her smart, she just understands systems and how things work logically) Its all backed by her intuition which gives her the answers, but she gets frustrated because she doesn't know how to deal with other people, when someone is crying she feels distressed because she is unequipped to deal with their problems unless they are anchored in reality, like money or some sort of physical needs problem. She tends to be a little self focused, and career focused because thats what she excels at, but she is a good person and she knows how, and why she feels the way she does. Even if she cannot express it well. She tends to be neurotic because of her Ni, but she handles it well.
Meaghan + Billy = seriously powerful combination. Her strengths + my strengths = calculated precision and intellectual consistency with an understanding of emotional states and a powerful vision for harmonious improvement of the relationship. That we are both Ni dominated individuals allows us a great depth of understanding and seeing multiple possibilities from a shitload of angles.
I need her Fi and Te to anchor me in place so I can utilize my Fe and Ti to keep us on track and to elevate us both in a healthy way. She takes care of the logical stuff, I nurture our relationship and challenge her to think more spiritually (read: not god or religion).
I find her very very easy to read because she is very up front with who and what she is, this in turn makes me want to disclose my innermost-ness to her which helps me to figure out what it is I am feeling internally. (Fi)
Basically we just trade Fi for Fe with each other.
She sees through my bullshit too, no one else does, so I dont feel a need to protect myself because she just "gets it" even if she doesnt know what to do with it lol...
Ah I dunno I am rambling now, LOVE INTJ's.