Aw thanks guys.
Shes an awesome girl and she called me and asked me to pick her up, which is an honor. She has a lot of friends who support her, she'll be fine. I assumed just letting her talk and cry it out was the best solution but never hurts to post a thread and get suggestions from other INFPs right?
Thread: Broken hearted INFP?
03-28-2010, 08:54 AM #11
03-28-2010, 09:05 AM #12
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- Nov 2009
In my case.. All I really ask for when I am broken hearted with those I am close to is.. To have patience in understanding that we all grieve in our own ways and to try not to rush my healing process. To have enough courage in the friendship to know that I will be back, but for the time being the person you know and like/love is wounded and hiding. I haven't changed, my situation has, and I am reacting to it.. eventually I will feel like myself again.When that happens it would be cool if my friends were still my friends and happy to see me.
05-05-2016, 03:13 PM #13
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- Apr 2016
As an INFP, that boyfriend must have meant a whole lot to her. If it was unexpected, then it may take a while to heal, with her thinking "What did I do wrong?"
But she may take this as a learning experience, and grow stronger from it. If she really loved him, she may even try to win him back, apologizing for whatever
she could have done wrong. But, whether he comes back or reinforces the break up, it could lead to a constant loop, which I don't know much about....
05-05-2016, 03:23 PM #14"We knew he was someone who had a tragic flaw, that's where his greatness came from"
05-05-2016, 03:46 PM #15"The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents... Some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the light into the peace and safety of a new Dark Age. " - H.P. Lovecraft