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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    She sounds like trouble, like she doesn't know what she wants. You're likely better off.
    What do you mean ?!

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    Synarch nailed my first reaction to reading this.

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    What do you mean ?!
    Get your hand away from the stove that keeps burning you.

    Have you thought of this: she is one in 6,692,030,277 people on this earth. If she can find more men, you have the capability to find another woman.

    Get over her - there's no need to bring up such a mess. I'm in your place right now, hating something that hurts you, but - really - you've got to move on.

    Focus on another part of your life like work and it'll just happen. It does.
    "Poor bastard. Wait 'till he sees the bats. "
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelemvor View Post
    What do you mean ?!
    You had a near miss. Count yourself lucky and breathe a sigh of relief. She's someone else's problem now. You deserve better than she gave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fill View Post
    Synarch nailed my first reaction to reading this.



    Get your hand away from the stove that keeps burning you.

    Have you thought of this: she is one in 6,692,030,277 people on this earth. If she can find more men, you have the capability to find another woman.

    Get over her - there's no need to bring up such a mess. I'm in your place right now, hating something that hurts you, but - really - you've got to move on.

    Focus on another part of your life like work and it'll just happen. It does.
    What if all that is my fault ? What if I was just as paranoid as the other said ?
    What if she really divorced because of me ?
    I won't stand the feeling of having destroyed her life.
    No...I cannot move on...

    INFJ's never express them selves directly. It's perhaps just me...but...it's like I felt that she was telling me to be patient...

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    ^ She's an adult, she knew what she was doing, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    You had a near miss. Count yourself lucky and breathe a sigh of relief. She's someone else's problem now. You deserve better than she gave.
    Extroverted and Introverted really not think the same way

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    ^ She's an adult, she knew what she was doing, right?
    I'm an adult too !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelemvor View Post
    I'm an adult too !
    But you aren't responsible for what she choses to do. Even if you want to be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    But you aren't responsible for what she choses to do. Even if you want to be.
    I told her to leave him...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelemvor View Post
    I told her to leave him...
    She's an adult. She's not bound to obey you. Anyway, she told you no and asked you to get out of her life. Chances are she didn't leave him for your sake.

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