I live in nyc, my parents in LA. My SO wants to move to LA and I feel I should be closer to my parents.
But...I have a huge resistance to moving. It took a lot to get where I am, and I don't care for driving or the suburbs, or the relentless sun or the lack of seasons, or the feeling that my brain is turning to mush.
I know these are superficial details compared to time spent with loved ones. Ugh.