The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY
Well I am much more preoccupied with myself, but I do spontaneously do things for other people as well. I am just very selective about who I make an effort for, affection is a precious thing. I find Fe users very superficial and overly pushy. You can't really care about someone you've just (or never) met, what do you know about them or their struggles?
Anyway, the reason I decided to ask for further confirmation before sharing what I was feeling is because the feelings were of a sexual nature.