Happy, peaceful, and hopeful that things are going to become beautiful for both myself and my ex. He is rebuilding his life and making plans for personal and social progress just like I am. I've made some friendship connections that are touching my lonely, isolated core. I think the pain and courage to make a change and end our marriage will be positive in the long run. Gawd it is painful and complex to make that choice, but so far in life it has resulted in better partnerships for everyone. Even though I struggled with some instinctual, deep limbic, animalistic anger in this relationship, I am at complete peace in idea space and understand that we just live out our lives and most pain that people cause one another is collateral damage from our own attempt to survive our lives. It's all good in the end.
Originally Posted by Grand Admiral Crunch
It might be fine for some people, but I rather not live in a world where people think it is okay for dolphins to rape each other.